An Affair to Remember

7.51 h 54 min1957X-Ray7+
In this poignant and humorous love story nominated for four Academy Awards, Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr meet on an ocean liner and fall deeply in love. Though each is engaged to someone else, they agree to meet six months later at the Empire State Building if they still feel the same way about each other. But a tragic accident prevents their rendezvous and the lover's future takes an emotional and uncertain turn.
Cary GrantDeborah KerrRichard Denning
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N. AhmaReviewed in the United States on October 30, 2016
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It's probably my all time favorite old hollywood movie. I love Deborah Kerr and Cary Grant and who couldn't love their trip to Grandma's house? It's just a pleasant, fun movie to watch, even the slow down of Deborah Kerr teaching at the little Catholic School is entertaining."Tomorrow Land" and "He knows you inside out", ( he's your conscience) oops! Spoil alert, both songs are fun to ride along with. I wonder why the doctor doesn't want her to go to the Christmas Program? I never figured that out and it' s a little absurd that Cary Grant can't figure out or even asks why she's tied to the couch in the last scene but I love the way he discovers her uhhh, special need, classic. They are both elegant, witty and beautiful to watch. I will be watching this movie the rest of my life.
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Patricia A.Reviewed in the United States on June 29, 2020
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This DVD is defective
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While I received this DVD from the seller in 2 days, I was very disappointed to see it has Korean subtitles and even the cover of the DVD case is in Korean. I was not aware of this when I purchased it from was not clearly described on the Amazon listing. I thought about returning it but instead watched it. I'm guessing this movie is not original...even, perhaps a pirated copy. There was absolutely no usual studio information you usually see when a DVD begins and no warnings about copying it. It began immediately. I was able to turn off the subtitles but there were at least 5 times that the video paused and then returned.

This movie is one of my favorites and purposely bought this one because it said it was "New", not "Used", as many of the other choices were. I paid $20 for this and feel I was cheated. There were other choices that were half that price. I paid more thinking I would get quality; I did not.
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unclemymyReviewed in the United States on April 19, 2016
5.0 out of 5 stars
If you want to be loved by women...
Verified purchase must watch this movie, and REALLY understand WHAT it is about, and WHY women love it so much. Cary Grant set the standard, and no one has come along to surpass him. Deborah Kerr, the same - elegance defined. Don't be an ass - be the gentleman that you should be, and don't be afraid to show all the clods out there just how it's done.

It's a magnificent movie that will make you see that all tragedy and triumph does not occur in the sports arena. Acting is superb - the moral lessons are sound, the cinematography will make a believer out of you. If you've ever been in love, or even close, you will love this movie.
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Linda LReviewed in the United States on January 3, 2017
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A film that will never get old
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Watched it the other night for umpteenth time in my life and was, once again, totally captivated. Grant was really at his peak of charisma and attractiveness here and Kerr is so lovely, warm and believable. It's a story from a lost era, with all the romance and sophistication of New York in the 50s. The musical numbers are a little corny, but it's fun to pick out the faces of kids who went on to have acting careers as adults. Beyond that, it reminds us that love happens to people, we don't choose it. But when it's the real thing, you better hold on tight.
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Matthew D'SouzaReviewed in the United States on December 27, 2018
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Melodrama and Romance!
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Melodrama and romance in An Affair to Remember!

As cute and romantic as An Affair to Remember (1957) certainly is, the film loses steam halfway through. I found the affair part far more memorable than the proceeding on and off again tragedy. The boat ride is such a quaint setting and the romancing is very sweet and playful. After the sentimental and sweet visit to grandma's in France, the movie slows down for some serious contrived conflicts.

I do not like Cary Grant's tan, the forced issue of Deborah Kerr's accident, nor Grant's not being informed of said accident. She would only hold back such information in a movie script, it never feels realistic or grounded.

On the other hand, Cary Grant is very charming and handsome in An Affair to Remember. Even though he's a cheater, he is very funny and suave enough to like as a main character. He is the real draw here as you genuinely start to feel sorry for him.

Then, there's Deborah Kerr. She is beautiful and charming, but I feel like other than her dialogue, she doesn't get to do anything. The tedious child choir songs she conducts are so bad and awkward. I liked her flirtatious charms from the first half, but Kerr suddenly disappears in the convoluted plot and feels secondary to Grant by the end. Her decisions are so strangely accounted for in the script that Kerr has little to work with, but at least she sings wonderfully.

I love the main theme music, especially during the piano serenade at Grant's grandmother's home in France. It's a sweet moment that takes you away. Unfortunately, the pacing of An Affair to Remember starts slow and turns to molasses as you are just waiting for them to get together again.

Overall, Leo McCarey is a talented director for setting up fun sequences and cute shots of the couple, but An Affair to Remember is edited to make you fall asleep. This story could have been told beautifully in an hour and a half instead of two whole hours worth of fluff. An Affair to Remember reaches for the unforgettable, but falls into the mediocre by the finale.
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SharonReviewed in the United States on August 15, 2021
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This is a classic movie that has stood the test of time. It is one of my all time favorite movies. I used to watch AMC when it only showed older movies and I was passing by when this movie wss on. They were on the steps of the boat and I wss curious why the woman kept walking around them. I was just going to watch to find out and ended up watching the rest of the movie. Shortly after that I went to the video store (I am that old) and rented it. Eventually I purchased it on VHS and then DVD. I streamed it online recently because I was moving from room to room and wss watching it on my Kindle. Highly recommend renting or, buying this movie. And other Cary Grant movies.
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The BeeReviewed in the United States on August 28, 2020
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Who doesn't like this movie? It's wonderful!
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This is one of our very favorite movies. We are so pleased to own our own Blu-ray of this movie so we can watch the movie whenever we want to, and not just when the movie appears on television. This purchase also includes a small book that also functions as a Blu-ray cover about the movie. I haven't read the book yet or watched the movie because I just received it today, but am looking forward to doing that. The Blu-ray/book arrived safely and in excellent condition. Thank you very much, and stay safe!
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Amazon CustomerReviewed in the United States on March 15, 2015
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AN AFFAIR TO REMEMBER [1957] [Deluxe Limited Edition DigiBook] [Blu-ray]
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AN AFFAIR TO REMEMBER [1957] [Deluxe Limited Edition DigiBook] [Blu-ray] In Italy! On The Mediterranean! Across An Ocean! And All Over New York!

In this poignant and humorous love story nominated for four Academy Awards® where Nickie [Cary Grant] and Terry [Deborah Kerr] meet on board an ocean liner and fall deeply in love. Although each is engaged to someone else, they agree to rendezvous six months later at the top of the Empire State Building if they still feel the same way about each other. But tragedy strikes . . . and prevents their rendezvous, but their future takes an emotional and uncertain turn.

FILM FACT: ‘An Affair to Remember’ was nominated at the Academy Awards® for four Oscars and they were Best Song, Best Cinematography, Best Score and Best Costume Design. Contributing to the success of the 1957 film is its theme song, "An Affair to Remember (Our Love Affair)" sung by Vic Damone, and composed by Harry Warren and with lyrics by Leo McCarey and Harold Adamson, which has since become a jazz standard.

Cast: Cary Grant, Deborah Kerr, Richard Denning, Neva Patterson, Cathleen Nesbitt, Robert Q. Lewis, Charles Watts, Fortunio Bonanova, Dorothy Adams (uncredited), Geneviève Aumont (uncredited), Richard Allen (uncredited) and Marni Nixon (Terry McKay singing voice)

Director: Leo McCarey

Producers: Jerry Wald and Leo McCarey

Screenplay: Delmer Daves, Donald Ogden Stewart and Leo McCarey

Composer: Hugo Friedhofer

Cinematography: Milton Krasner

Video Resolution: 1080p [Color By DeLuxe]

Aspect Ratio: 2.35:1 [CinemaScope]

Audio: English: 5.1 DTS-HD Master Audio, English: 2.0 Dolby Digital Stereo, Spanish: 1.0 LPCM Mono Audio and French: 2.0 Dolby Digital Stereo

Subtitles: English SDH and Spanish

Running Time: 115 minutes

Region: Region A/1

Number of discs: 1

Studio: 20th Century Fox Home Entertainment

Andrew’s Blu-ray Review: ‘An Affair to Remember’ is one of the most popular love stories ever made in Hollywood. Many fans would hail it as the most romantic film ever made. With its mix of sophistication and sentimentality, the film offers one of the most complete expressions of Leo McCarey's personality as a writer-director. In particular, auteur critics have hailed his ability to make the transition from comedy in the early scenes to the more deeply romantic mood of the film's ending, a characteristic of such other Leo McCarey films as ‘Going My Way’ [1944] and ‘The Bells of St. Mary's’ [1945].

“Winter must be cold for those with no warm memories. . . We’ve already missed the spring,” laments Deborah Kerr’s Terry McKay of the 1957 classic ‘An Affair to Remember’ and an unforgettable romance that has managed to melt frost-bitten hearts everywhere for more than half a century. Though it is well-known for being the romantic film to end all romantic films, ‘An Affair to Remember’ is more than a mere cultural touchstone and it’s a great film in and of itself.

Nickie [Cary Grant] a notorious playboy and Terry [Deborah Kerr], an heiress, meet on the SS Constitution ocean liner. Bonded by their shared love of the finer things in life (including but not limited to pink champagne and sailing around the Mediterranean), the two instantly hit it off. Exchanging witty banter and stolen glances, their chemistry is apparent. There’s only one problem, both parties are engaged to other people. Upon docking in New York City, the pair, unable to deny their mutual attraction, agrees to meet in six months’ time at the top of the Empire State Building. However, when an unfortunate accident hinders Terry from attending their reunion, it looks as though their seemingly-fated love affair is no longer on the cards. But, of course, the heart wants what the heart wants and as chance (or indeed, Hollywood) would have it, Terry and Nickie cross paths again in the most unexpected way.

This is a film about the slow-burn of attraction, delighting in the small moments that form the prelude to a kiss (and one of the most memorable on-screen first kisses of all-time, at that). Sparks fly as the couple tease one another with a barrage of whip-smart quips, the on-screen sexual tension between stars Deborah Kerr and Cary Grant is smouldering, who brings the film alive, managing to capture the inexplicable magic of falling in love.

In fact, it’s almost impossible not to feel one’s own knees buckle as the dizzying intensity with which the couple fall in love unfolds. In one particularly beautiful scene, they visit Nickie’s doting Grandma Janou [Cathleen Nesbitt] in her home on the French Riviera. Nickie’s relationship with the tender-hearted Grandma Janou is a window that allows Terry a rare glimpse into the charismatic bachelor’s childhood. Cary Grant balances Nickie’s artistic sensibilities with cheeky cocksure confidence, showing us and indeed, seducing us with Nickie’s vulnerable side. And yet, despite their debonair appearances, it is the unsaid feelings and heart-pounding what-ifs that have us rooting for Nickie and Terry and reaching for the tissues right until the very end. Beautifully shot in vivid Color By DeLuxe, and accompanied by Harry Warren’s rich, romantic score, this bittersweet romance is a nostalgic cinematic experience that has truly stood the test of time.

The result was ‘An Affair to Remember’ [1957], one of the most popular love stories ever made in Hollywood. Many fans would hail it as the most romantic movie ever made. With its mix of sophistication and sentimentality, the film offers one of the most complete expressions of Leo McCarey's personality as a writer-director. In particular, auteur critics have hailed his ability to make the transition from comedy in the early scenes to the more deeply romantic mood of the film's ending, a characteristic of such other Leo McCarey films as ‘Going My Way’ [1944] and ‘The Bells of St. Mary's’ [1945]. The film was also Leo McCarey's last great success, capping a career that stretched back to the silent comedies he wrote and directed for Hal Roach.

‘An Affair to Remember’ was one of three 1957 films that brought Cary Grant out of retirement after his performance in ‘To Catch a Thief’ two years earlier. With the critical and box-office failure of his other two 1957 films, ‘The Pride and the Passion’ and ‘Kiss Them for Me’ and it provided the success Cary Grant needed to keep him making films until his ultimate retirement in 1966. It remains one of his most popular films. The film also remains Deborah Kerr's most popular. Throughout her later years, she was always pleased when she met fans and they told her they had most recently seen her in ‘An Affair to Remember’ and was the most successful of the three films Cary Grant made with Deborah Kerr. Although the two seemed perfectly matched, their other vehicles, ‘Dream Wife’ [1953] and ‘The Grass Is Greener’ [1960], did not capture their chemistry as effectively. The film was producer Jerry Wald's first under contract to 20th Century Fox, where he would finish his career with such acclaimed features as ‘Peyton Place’ [1957], ‘The Long, Hot Summer’ [1958] and ‘Sons and Lovers’ [1960].

Blu-ray Video Quality – The film’s stunning Cinemascope aspect ratio of 2.35:1 is replicated to perfection and so is the beautiful 1080p encoded image transfer. Colour is nicely saturated without being overblown (though stock photography and rear screen projection looks much less impressive). Flesh tones, from the nut brown tan that Cary Grant sports to the peaches ‘n cream complexion of Deborah Kerr, are spot on. Black levels aren’t very deep and are the weakest aspect of the transfer. It’s very clean, however, with no visible scratches or blemishes, and sharpness is nicely achieved.

Blu-ray Audio Quality – The Blu-ray offers both English 5.1 DTS-HD Master Audio and 2.0 Dolby Digital Stereo. The 2.0 Dolby Digital stereo soundtrack is somewhat loud and it is a bit harsher sounding than the with the 5.1 DTS-HD MA mix, which is much more refined and smoother. There’s a tiny bit of hiss in some of the earlier quieter scenes of the film, but it’s never intrusive to the listening experience. Apart from the music score, there isn’t much surround activity here. Dialogue is always easily discernible in the centre channel though it is clear there was quite a bit of work with the film soundtrack.

Blu-ray Special Features and Extras:

Beautiful 24 pages Collectable DigiBook Packaging: That features text about the story, the stars and the director, and also stills in gorgeous Colour and some mostly in Black-and-White photographs.

Audio Commentary: Audio Commentary by Singer Marnie Nixon and Film Historian Joseph McBride: The audio commentary is provided by American film historian Joseph McBride and singer Marni Nixon who talk lovingly about the Leo McArey remake of his original black-and-white ‘Love Affair.’ Marni Nixon wished she had sung the film song title, but heaps great praise on Vic Damone’s interpretation of the film’s title song. We get to hear Joseph McBride has great affection to this film and the director, as he has so many interesting facts about the process of making ‘An Affair to Remember.’ Another interesting information we hear is the fact that Marni Nixon had worked before with Deborah Kerr in dubbing her voice in the film ‘The King and I,’ but because Marni Nixon had a year’s contract with NBC, she wondered how she could work on this particular film, but Deborah Kerr assured Marni Nixon that she knew how to dub her singing voice for this film. But to show how professional Marni Nixon was, because the film was released in different in different languages; well Marni Nixon assured the studio executives that she could sing in all the different languages. But overall I can really recommend you give this brilliant Audi Commentary a good try out, as Joseph McBride is a real joy to listen to and it is one of the best audio commentaries I have heard in a very long time.

Feature Documentary: Affairs to Remember: Deborah Kerr [2007] [1080p] [16:9] [5:34] Peter Viertel [Husband to Deborah Kerr] talks about he met Deborah Kerr, who was already married to Tony Bartley, who was extremely jealous of Ms. Deborah Kerr success and eventually they both got divorced. Sadly in her later years, Deborah Kerr suffered from a serious illness of Parkinson and eventually passed away in England on 16th October, 2007 at the age of 86.

Feature Documentary: Affairs to Remember: Cary Grant [2007] [1080p] [16:9] [9:48] Barbara Grant James [Cary Grant’s Widow] talks very affectionately about how she met Cary Grant in the Royal Lancaster Hotel in London. Barbara Grant admitted that she never hardly saw any of Cary Grant’s films and how charming he was off screen. Despite Barbara Grant and Cary Grant were both in a relationship at the time, but eventually grew closer together and finally both got divorced, and were finally able to live together until Cary Grant passed away on the 29th November, 1986 in Davenport, Iowa.

Feature Documentary: Directed by Leo McCarey [2007] [1080p] [16:9] [22:33] Scott McIsaac [Film Historian]; Paul Harrill [Author/Film Professor]; Peter Bogdanovich [Author/Film Maker]; and Rick Jewel [USC Professor Cinema-Television] talk glowingly about this giant among directors of his luminary work of his classic films. You hear about how Leo McCarey tried different career choices. First he tried to become a prize fighter, a miner, a sports writer for the LA Times. Then he went to the USC to study law and eventually became a lawyer, but this did not last long due to an unsuccessful court case that went badly wrong, and eventually got a job in Hollywood as a script girl for the director Todd Browning. When he finally got to direct films, he famously worked with Laurel & Hardy, Harold Lloyd, Mae West, The Marx Brothers, Charles Laughton, Cary grant, Irene Dunne and many more famous actors. He directed the ‘Love Affair’ film and then went onto to do the remake ‘An Affair to Remember.’ He also made other classic films, which included his last film he made was ‘Satan never Sleeps’ which he hated directing, plus he hated all the actors and eventually sadly passed away suffering from emphysema in 1969.

Feature Documentary: A Producer to Remember: Jerry Wald [2007] [1080p] [16:9] [16:06] Malvin Wald [Brother to Screenwriter]; Robby Wald [Son]; Richard Baer [Writer]; Andrew Wald [Son] and Constance Wald [Widow of Jerry Wald] talk glowingly and affectionate about the life and times of this special Producer jerry Wald, who worked in different film companies from 1944 to 1962, who was also passionate about his work in films. The passion sort of started when Jerry Wald worked with his father, who to get any business, would tell them very elaborate stories, to the point he persuaded to get orders for the Company Jerry Wald’s father worked for. So this how Jerry Wald got into the film industry, as he could also weave a good story to the film executives to get certain stars into a particular film. But his greatest gift was working with top authors and turning their books into a working film script, and also appreciating the importance of the audience who went to see the films he worked on. He was totally motivated by the whole film industry and a total workaholic and sadly this was his undoing and eventually passed away at the age of 50 after three heart attacks. Despite this sad fact, his volume of work for the film industry, speaks for itself.

Feature Documentary: The Look of An Affair to Remember [2007] [1080p] [16:9] [9:01] With any film, it has to have a look, and also how the director and the production designer wants the film image looks in the frame and to guide us through this homage to ‘An Affair to Remember’ we have contributions from John Cork [Film Historian]; Peter Bogdanovich [Author/Film Maker]; Wes Gehring [Author/Film Professor] and Rick Jewell [USC Professor Cinema-Television]. With all these contributors they give great praise on the director Leo McArey and his use of the CinemaScope aspect ratio, to make you fall in love with this particular film. One great surprise you hear is how Cary Grant insisted he wanted to shoot the film an actual liner, but Leo McArey insisted that he would only film most of the film on the backlot of the studio and that is why the director made ‘An Affair to Remember’ such a magical joyous classic romantic film, that has stood the test of time.

Feature Documentary: AMC Backstory®: An Affair to Remember [2001] [480i] [4:3] [24:27] This made for TV documentary, tells in great detail about the backstage story about the main stars Cary grant and Deborah Kerr, which reflected their screen personalities, and their secret private lives. People contributing to this documentary are Peter Bogdanovich [Author/Film Maker]; A.E. Holchner [Sophia Loren’s Biographer]; Roy Mosley [Cary Grant’s Biographer]; Curtis Harrington [Former Assistant to jerry Wald]; Deborah Kerr [Actress]; Francesca Shrapnel [Deborah Kerr’s Daughter]; Rudy Behlmer [Film Historian]; Nancy Nelson [Cary Grant’s Biographer] and Anne Hutton [Deborah Kerr’s Manager/Friend]. We hear about when Cary Grant worked on the film ‘The Pride and The Passion’ where he fell madly in love with the leading female star Sophia Loren, who was seriously romantically involved with producer Carlo Ponti. We also get to see a short clip from a very rare promotional film the 20th Century Fox presents A Special CinemaScope Picture entitled “The Big Show” to promote the film ‘An Affair to Remember.’ Leo McCarey found two main stars got on very well together, that he allowed them to sometimes to improvise occasionally from the script. We also get lots of clips from the film, as well as certain outtakes. Although critics slated the film, but of course it was a massive big hit with audiences and also its deservedly Academy Awards Nominations. Narrated by Rino Romano.

Fox Movietone News: An Affair to Remember Shipboard Premiere Attracts Celebrities [1957] [1080p] [4:3] [00:56] This short film packs in a lot and you see most of the stars, as well as the director and producer involved with the film. But you also get to see other celebrities attending the premiere, which includes Celeste Holm, Shelley Winters, Arlene Dahl, Fernando Lamas and Deborah Paget.

Theatrical Trailer: [1957] [480i] [4:3] [2:53] Here we get to see the actual 20th Century Fox present a Special CinemaScope Picture ‘The Big Show.’

Finally, keep the Kleenex nearby for this 10 hanky tearjerker; it’s a classic of romantic cinema that has influenced the genre for decades of other romantic films. Cary Grant and Deborah Kerr make it easy to believe everything about this love story. Cary Grant is a certain kind of charming that can never be duplicated. He’s the kind of actor that makes you fall in love with him no matter what year it is. The transition from playboy to love fool is so effortless for Cary Grant. His sincerity and expression in certain scenes makes you feel the way he does, as if another love like this will never come again. Deborah Kerr is a timeless beauty, who plays the part of the woman with strength well. Bottom line is, for those true romantics out there; this is one you shouldn’t pass up. This is what a romantic film should be all about. A love like this goes hand and hand with class, something that many stars today can’t even get close to. ‘An Affair to Remember’ will always be one to remember. They don’t make them like this anymore, so this is one to purchase for certain. It makes an excellent, stay-at-home romantic date night film especially, as well for the whole family. Highly Recommended!

Andrew C. Miller – Your Ultimate No.1 Film Aficionado
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