The Attachment Parenting Book: A Commonsense Guide to Understanding and Nurturing Your Child Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

William Sears MD (Author), Martha Sears RN (Author), Jim Denison (Narrator),

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America's foremost baby and childcare experts, William Sears, MD, and Martha Sears, RN, explain the benefits - to both you and your child - of connecting with your baby early.

Might you and your baby both sleep better if you shared a bed? How old is too old for breastfeeding? What is a father's role in nurturing a newborn? How does early attachment foster a child's eventual independence? Dr. Bill and Martha Sears - the doctor-and-nurse, husband-and-wife team who coined the term "attachment parenting" - answer these and many more questions in this practical, inspiring guide. Attachment parenting is a style of parenting that encourages a strong early attachment and advocates parental responsiveness to babies' dependency needs.

The Attachment Parenting Book clearly explains the seven "Baby Bs" that form the basis of this popular parenting style:

Bonding
Breastfeeding
Babywearing
Belief in the language value of baby's cry
Bedding close to baby
Balance
Beware of baby trainers

Here's all the information you need to achieve your most important goals as a new parent: to know your child, to help your child feel right, and to enjoy parenting.

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10 hours and 2 minutes
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William Sears MD, see all
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Jim Denison
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January 29, 2019
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English
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Blackstone Audio, Inc.
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B07MXL1VT5
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Listening Length	10 hours and 2 minutes
Author	William Sears MD, Martha Sears RN
Narrator	Jim Denison
Whispersync for Voice	Ready
Audible.com Release Date	January 29, 2019
Publisher	Blackstone Audio, Inc.
Program Type	Audiobook
Version	Unabridged
Language	English
ASIN	B07MXL1VT5
Best Sellers Rank	#201,279 in Audible Books & Originals (See Top 100 in Audible Books & Originals) #167 in Fatherhood (Audible Books & Originals) #246 in Parenting Infants & Toddlers #411 in Motherhood (Audible Books & Originals)

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Clara Ruth

This book makes healthy attachment accessible

Reviewed in the United States on March 2, 2018

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I found this book to clearly and simply convey everything I would most want to transmit to new parents about what is most critical in enabling babies and toddlers to thrive for the long-term through optimal attachment to parents. I have studied the neuroscience of this, which is very impressive and convincing, but not particularly readable unless you are scientifically or psychologically oriented (if so, the work of Allan Shore, PhD is inspiring). Sears makes this invaluable model accessible for the day by day experience of a new, or new-to-attachment, parent, answering many questions that are likely to come up; and laying out practical details for implementing it. With his expertise as a pediatric physician and his hands-on experience, with his wife, of raising eight children, practicing attachment for many years, his advice feels grounded and trustworthy. Other reviewers have commented that it is repetitious but I would describe that as reinforcing and clarifying the most essential intentions and practices of this system. As a child therapist and parent, I cannot say enough about how important healthy attachment is for the deep well-being and development of a child. Sears' book is a great tool for bringing it to life in your own family.

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Rachel Rainbolt

Give life to your intuitive wisdom

Reviewed in the United States on August 13, 2020

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I read The Attachment Parenting Book: A Commonsense Guide to Understanding and Nurturing Your Baby by Dr. William and Martha Sears in grad school after giving birth to my first baby and it gave life to all of the intuitive wisdom that had been screaming deep within me against all of the loud, controlling mainstream parenting advice of disconnection. The primary tenants of the approach are the 7 B’s: birth bonding, breastfeeding, baby wearing, bedding close to baby, belief in the language value of your baby’s cry, beware of baby trainers, and balance. They are a set of practices rooted in a a natural, evolutionary approach that sets up both baby and mother to thrive. This book will soften you and shift you into a harmonious alignment with your baby, forming a secure connection that can last a lifetime.

“To your baby, you are the best mother.”

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Mazera Cox

fabulous book

Reviewed in the United States on September 11, 2021

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so easy to read, straight forward and to the point! They go over facts and history well and it's so easy to adapt to this NATURAL parenting style. I was already doing this, but the book just validated my instincts.

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Melody H

Wonderful book!

Reviewed in the United States on February 10, 2013

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This book is so wonderful!!! Attachment parenting is seriously what parents would do naturally if there weren't other crazy books telling people to let babies just cry! Pick up those babies, hold them and ENJOY every season of their lives!
Such an easy read. Love all the tips in boxes and bullet points. In a society were commonsense really isn't that common, every parent could benefit from using this book! Never feel guilty about going with your instincts for your children!

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@weeks

Another great Dr Sears book

Reviewed in the United States on October 1, 2011

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I love all the books in the Sears library. This book teaches you the basics to being a great parent. It guides you in following your instincts and looking to your baby for parenting tips. I would recommend all mothers read this book before they have their first baby so that they can learn to love their babies without letting social pressures of "baby training" get in the way of the healthy loving relationship we are all naturally inclined to have with our children. Wonderful book, wonderful way of life.

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m massa

Arrived quickly and in perfect condition.

Reviewed in the United States on January 1, 2021

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Arrived quickly and in perfect condition. It is a great book

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Great advices for the soft hearted moms

Reviewed in the United States on March 18, 2014

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I practice attachment parenting b/c that it the way feel most natural to me. I use many of the advices from Dr. Sear for all of my 3 kids. I have all girls 5,7,10. I don't want to brag about my kids here as I think the results of any parenting method can't really be measure until much later in life. Whether they will grow up as well ground adults with healthy life styes, successful career, happy individual, & a great contributor to human life....but for now, I can tell you that I'm very proud of my children at this ages & we are a very happy loving family. I don't "spoil" my kids as contrary to many incorrect perception about parenting. We try to provide a loving but structure environment for our children.

Dr. Sear offer many great advice in this book & I used it in those days that my kids were babies age. We co-sleep & I nurse my kids. My baby was nurse until she almost 3. They are all very independent now & have their own rooms, which they took care really well. I almost NEVER let my babies cry & always pick them up to comfort them, my kids are great sleepers now, all we do at night is tuck them in with good night kisses, they wake up to use the rest room by themselves. Every once in a while, we allow them to sleep in our beds & that is a special treat.

Except travelling for work, my husband & I NEVER take a vacation without the kids. We rather travel with other family friends so we have the adults companies & the kids have friends their ages to. We enjoy our kids companies & they love ours.

If you don't use all the advice in this book, you can still benefit from reading it & maybe apply some

My mom use the "tough love" method on me . I turn out fine but I always secretly wish she was more gentle with me.

So there is no right or wrong, just practice what you believe in your loving heart & hopefully we will raise the next generation of great human, loving & giving :-)

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Shoshana Elisheva

Wonderful

Reviewed in the United States on August 6, 2013

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Wonderfully written book on the ways of attachment parenting, or, as I like to call it... on Loving Parenting. This book is a great gift for any new parent, and great buy for any pregnant mama! It will give you the confidence to say, "This is how I'm raising my children, because I love them". Everyone is different and has their own ways, traditions, and difficulties parenting, I think this book really sends the message that it's okay to be who you are and give your children all the affection and love they need, without feeling guilty (or judged) that you're somehow going to spoil them with love. There are things you can give a child too much of, LOVE is NOT one of them.

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Mrs. M. Lungu

Absolutely wonderful in EVERY respect!

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on May 14, 2013

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I find that while reading this book, there's so many mums I want to read bits out to - the psychology of children is flawless in my opinion (and I have a psychology degree) so it really helps to understand where our little people are coming from. Sears comes across as completely non-judgmental which really helps if you feel you've made mistakes before when looking after children, be it your own, your siblings when you were younger or other people's children. When my firstborn came along 2 years ago, I was recommended the baby whisperer books, and although I tried to stick with it for a whole 3 months, it felt unnatural to me to leave my baby sobbing while bent over him patting him on the back for ages. I was confused and upset when my baby didn't conform to what the baby whisperer said. The difference with this book is that I always feel calmer about a situation once I've read Sears thoughts on something that I'm having trouble with (fussiness or clinginess to pick one example). There's also a great section on working as a parent while maintaining your attachment - which they know a lot about since there's not much maternity leave or care provided to mothers in the States much past 6 weeks.

The sections are based around the 7 Baby Bs:
1) Birth Bonding: how the beginnings affect early attachment.
2) Breastfeeding: how it helps in getting to know your baby, what they call 'Baby Reading'.
3) Baby Wearing: research clearly shows how children who are carried fuss less and they are so content that they spend a lot of time in quiet alertness, learning a lot about their environment. They just seem so much calmer too.
4) Bed Sharing: the benefits of bed sharing for mothers and babies. The fact is that most babies sleep best when they are close to their parents. Personally, we have co-slept with our baby since I fell asleep breastfeeding one night and realised the next morning how well we had all slept! Sears is again non-judgmental about whichever way you decide to sleep.
5) Belief in baby's cries: "a baby's cry is a baby's language" ie they communicate through crying - they have different cries for different emotions, which you pick up the more time you spend with your baby. Babies don't cry to manipulate, they cry to alert you to their needs. "The more sensitively you respond, the more baby learns to trust his parents and his ability to communicate".
6) Balance and Boundaries: about balancing your own needs with those of your baby and the rest of your family. Because it's extremely important to not "neglect your own needs and those of your marriage"
7) Beware of baby trainers: "This restrained style of baby care, which we dub baby training is based upon the misguided assumptions that babies cry to manipulate, not to communicate, and that a baby's cry is an inconvenient habit that must be broken to help baby fit more conveniently into an adult environment...a distance can develop between baby and parent - just the opposite of what happens with attachment parenting"

The overall theme of the book is for you to learn to rely on your own instincts and decide for yourself how best to parent your own child.

When reading this book, I realised that I'd been parenting the exact same way without realising there was a name for what I did! To me, I was just doing what naturally came to me. Attachment parenting is a natural way to parent, and this book helps to explain it in detail in a helpful way, without coming across as patronising or judgmental. It makes me want to get all their other parenting books and also buy their books for other mummies I know!

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Gracie

Old-fashioned, outdated and repetitive

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 25, 2019

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This book was extremely basic - you can get the same information watching a few YouTube videos about attachment parenting, or reading an article. It was extremely outdated, assuming that fathers spend little time with children. For most families that are ready for attachment parenting, this 1950s view of the family just doesn't fit. I found this book disappointing and not worth keeping as a reference. I regret buying it and wish I had bought another book on attachment parenting. It isn't well-written and manages to make an emotional subject that I'm deeply invested in boring (and I love reading!).

Buy another book.

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Annie Schueler

This book is just wonderful. It gave us a clear idea how to ...

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 20, 2018

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This book is just wonderful. It gave us a clear idea how to best tend to our child and simultaneously relieved a lot of fear and insecurity we felt before. It also helps your wallet by showing you all the things available in the market that an infant/toddler absolutely does not need.

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Dorota Pliszka

Get is before baby trainers get you

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on April 14, 2015

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This book tells you what you already know deep down in your heart. Get this book before baby trainers get you. It was like music to me ear - everything I would've done following my intuition stands there, scientifically proved.
If I can add one word of criticism, it would be about baby carrying. The authors can't say enough good things about it but my daughter is a living proof that not every baby loves being in a baby carrier. When she was 1 - 2 months old she was screaming her head off regardless of being carried or laid down to bed. Now at the age of 5 months she does accept it but doesn't love it and she can stay calm only as long as I keep on moving. The story presented by the authors about sitting in a restaurant and enjoying a dinner with a baby in a sling sounds like a fairy tale to me.
However my experience only confirms the overall message from the book: every baby comes into this world with its own personality and our job is to adjust our world to this little person, not the other way around.

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JAL

Clear and very easy to read (picking up and putting down and carrying ...

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on October 30, 2015

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Clear and very easy to read (picking up and putting down and carrying on from where you left off...very useful if you're busy with a young baby!) it's useful to be able to read various quotations from parents having followed the method. I was genuinely skeptical of the AP method before buying this book, but it makes a lot of sense and seems to have converted me.

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