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About Ian Kerner
Ian is the New York Times best-selling author of numerous books, including She Comes First (Harper Collins) which is the best-selling sex advice book of the last decade and has been translated into more than a dozen languages.
Ian is regularly quoted as an expert in various media, with frequent appearances on CNN, The Today Show and The Dr. Oz Show. He lectures frequently on topics related to sex and relationships, with recent appearances at New York University, Yale, Princeton, the French Institute Alliance Francaise and the inaugural Sex and Attachment conference in NYC.
Ian is also the founder of GoodInBed.com, a web destination and publishing company that brings together many of the country's leading sex experts and also conducts original research into various aspects of human sexuality. Recent topics of study include: relationship boredom, sexual adventurousness and changing attitudes around monogamy.
In addition to being a New York State licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Ian is certified by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists (AASECT). He works with individuals and couples both privately and at the Institute for Contemporary Psychotherapy, one of New York's oldest and most respected not-for-profit mental health training and treatment facilities. His practice is composed equally of heterosexual and LGBTQ patients.
Ian was born and raised in New York City, where he lives with his wife and two sons and their family dogs, Jitterbug and Oscar.
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“Every man’s must-read. Tell your guy to put down the remote and pick up She Comes First.”
Ian Kerner offers a radical new philosophy for pleasuring women in She Comes First—an essential guidebook to oral sex from the author of Be Honest—You’re Not That Into Him Either. The New York Times praises Kerner’s “cool sense of humor and an obsessive desire to inform,” as he “encourages men through an act that many find mystifying.” An indispensable aid to a healthier, more fulfilling sex life for her and him, She Comes First offers techniques and philosophy that have already earned raves from the likes of bestselling author and Loveline co-host Dr. Drew Pinsky as well as Playgirl magazine, which cheers, “Hallelujah!”
• Have flannel pj’ s replaced your silky negligees?
• Are you more likely to nod off cuddling the remote—instead of your partner?
• Are you too tired for sex?
• Is foreplay becoming “boreplay”?
Sure, being comfortable in your relationship is great. You can finish each other’s sentences, love your partner’s extra ten pounds, and know just the right buttons to push in bed (or at least think you do). But too much comfort can strip your sex life of its XXX rating and render your love life . . . lifeless.
New York Times bestselling author and nationally recognized sex counselor Ian Kerner and vivacious television personality Lisa Rinna, who spoke candidly about rediscovering her own lost libido in her New York Times bestseller Rinnavation, are on a mission to help you get from “no-go” to the Big O.
Mind-blowing sex is just pages away! Turn down the lights and cozy up under the sheets with this intimate bedside guide to igniting your mojo. Overflowing with candid advice, tips, techniques, personal revelations, sexercises, and even a ten-step plan guaranteed to rejuvenate your relationship and keep you and your partner coming back for more, The Big, Fun, Sexy Sex Book proves that knowledge isn’t just power—it’s also pleasure!
Now, let’s have some fun!
HE SAYS: “What happens outside the bedroom affects what happens in the bedroom, and when couples are connected intimately, their relationship can be more vital and stronger than they ever imagined.”
SHE SAYS: “Don’t underestimate a real woman. You want to know about great sex? I’ll show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just show you great sex. You want a cougar? I’ll give you a tigress! I’m just reaching my peak, and I feel sexier than ever—and so can you!”
IT’S NEVER TOO LATE TO GET THE SEX LIFE YOU ALWAYS WANTED!
* Sexy scenarios and hot new moves to amp up the adventure!
* The best sexual positions to make you climax
* Confidence boosters that make you feel sexier than ever and bring out your inner thrill-seeker
* Oral sex and hand job tips that will make his body go nuclear
* Fixes for common bedroom problems such as low desire, mismatched libidos, and sexual boredom
* Tips for coping with sexual “male-functions” such as premature ejaculation, erectile disorder, and a propensity for porn
* The ten-step sex workout
* The most amazing sex of your life—at any age, even after kids!
Transform Yourself from "Passion Victim" to Passionista!
In the smash hit She Comes First, Ian Kerner singlehandedly waged battle against male sexual "ill-cliteracy," and women everywhere benefited from his "viva la vulva" philosophy of female pleasure. Now, in Passionista, it's time to learn all about what turns men onand makes them stay on. In this point-by-point, "blow-by-blow" guide, Kerner makes giving as much fun as receiving as he covers every angle of male sexuality, unlocks the secrets of satisfaction, and offers knowledgeable answers to the questions every woman wonders about. His advice is the closest you'll ever come to waking up in a guy's skin and knowing what truly makes him sexually tick.
Written in the same witty, insightful, and utterly readable voice that has made She Comes First and Be Honest so popular, Passionista is the empowered woman's guide to enjoying sex to the fullest
Avoid the booty call blues and get the love -- and sex -- you deserve!Come on. Admit it. He may not be that into you, but were you ever really that into him? He was never "the one," but you lowered your standards and dated him in the meantime. Why? For any number of reasons: you were lonely, you were horny, you thought dating him was better than being alone, all your friends are getting married -- you name it. And before you knew it, you got hung up on the jerk. Go figure.
The world is full of sensational women, but in today's market there are too few good men to go around (or so it appears). Now Dr. Ian Kerner, clinical sexologist and author of the smash hit She Comes First, explores the battlefield of sex, hook ups, go-nowhere relationships, and the dismal dating treadmill, simultaneously arming women with a sharper set of insights and the tools for change. With humor and sincerity, Kerner shows women how to break the cycle of dating defeat and use the power of sex to find love, "with a great guy who is into you." So raise your standards -- and reach for the love you deserve!
Are you a victim of a crime of the heart?
Is your relationship an unsolved mystery?
It's time to analyze the Dating DNA.
In this hilarious and helpful handbook, best-selling author Ian Kerner introduces us to the DSI team, a top-secret unit within the FBI (that's the Federal Bureau of Intimacy) whose sole mission is to investigate dating dilemmas and equip you with the skills you need so you're never again a dating victim.
Through humorous and engaging case studies, you'll read about boyfriends who might be gay, gamers who won't step up to the plate, and wimps who won't go down for the count. You'll meet Dating DUPEs (Desperately Under Pressure to Evaluate) and their antagonistic ARSEs (Anti-Relationship Suspect Examinees). You'll gain unprecedented access to previously classified relationship rap sheets: detailed reports that reveal interpersonal infractions, mating misdemeanors, and flirtatious felonies. You'll boldly go where no civilian has gone before as we apply the latest forensic tools to decipher complex dating data: From testing for SPARK (Sexual Potential and Romantic Kinship), to consulting with undercover agents in the MBU (Missing Boyfriends Unit), Kerner ventures above the law and beneath the covers.
Because in the end . . . the love life you save may be your own.
From the New York Times bestselling author of She Comes First and Be Honest—You're Not That Into Him Either comes a revolutionary 30-day program to detoxify and rejuvenate your love life
For many of us—whether we're in a relationship or actively dating in the hopes of finding that special someone—our love lives have become a source of toxicity. Sex Recharge offers a new way to start fresh and take action. In this practical, life-changing guide, Ian Kerner lays out a friendly, achievable 30-day course of action to help you rebuild your love life from the inside out. Whether you're single or coupled, Sex Recharge will enable you to achieve the relationship results you deserve.
Basado en los libros del autor Ian Kerner
ELLAS LLEGAN PRIMERO (2004) es una guía para mejorar la experiencia sexual de una mujer a través del acto de cunnilingus. Enfatiza el valor del orgasmo femenino y defiende un enfoque reducido en la penetración.
ELLOS LLEGAN DESPUÉS (2006) es la guía definitiva para comprender los deseos de los hombres y las complejidades de su proceso de respuesta sexual. Esta comprensión que puede ayudar a generar más placer del que su compañero sexual masculino haya experimentado antes. Estos son consejos que pueden ayudar a tocar su corazón y saber qué hacer cuando toca sus otras partes.
PARA QUIÉN ES ESTE RESUMEN
- Personas con la intención de convertirse en un mejor amante.
- Cualquiera que quiera mejorar sus habilidades de cunnilingus
- Los interesados en la biología femenina.
- Parejas que quieren mejorar su vida amorosa.
- Aquellos que quieren llevar a sus parejas masculinas al éxtasis sexual
- Hombres que sienten curiosidad por su topografía sexual.
SOBRE EL AUTOR
Ian Kerner tiene un doctorado en sexología y es psicoterapeuta con licencia que se especializa en terapia sexual. Fundó el sitio goodinbed.com, que recopila información de los principales expertos en sexo y relaciones.
ELLAS LLEGAN PRIMERO
Capítulo 1: Aprenda a dar placer sexual a una mujer.
Capítulo 2: Concéntrese en el cunnilingus sobre la penetración para hacer que la mujer alcance el clímax.
Capítulo 3: El clítoris es una zona erógena expansiva.
Capítulo 4: Las tres etapas, el juego previo, el juego básico y más juego, conforman la respuesta sexual femenina.
Capítulo 5: Asegúrese de que ambos estén cómodos durante el juego previo, y guarde el beso genital para el final.
Capítulo 6: Coreplay consta de seis etapas, y son esenciales los movimientos suaves y rítmicos de la lengua.
Capítulo 7: Más juego se trata de volver al estado pre-despertado y luego darle otro orgasmo.
Capítulo 8: A lo largo de todo el proceso de cunnilingus, tenga en cuenta estas tres garantías.
ELLOS LLEGAN DESPUÉS
Capítulo 1: Aprenda valiosas lecciones sobre cómo llevar a su hombre al éxtasis sexual
Capítulo 2: El área pélvica es un área altamente protegida, tanto fisiológica como psicológicamente
Capítulo 3: Las dificultades y ansiedades sexuales de los hombres se perpetúan por estar demasiado centradas en el pene
Capítulo 4: El deseo es la clave para mantener el sexo interesante y apetecible.
Capítulo 5: Puede aumentar el placer sexual haciendo que la fantasía sea parte del juego previo.
Capítulo 6: El buen sexo requiere una conexión emocional y una buena disposición para frenar las cosas.
Capítulo 7: Para orgasmos asombrosos, pase de la excitación local a la global.
Capítulo 8: El sexo alucinante comienza con placer, tomándolo con calma.
Capítulo 9: Para hacer que un hombre dure, mantenga la fase de meseta el mayor tiempo posible.
Sex. After. Baby.
These three words are spoken in hushed voices over playdates and at playgrounds. But while we may whisper them to our closest girlfriends, or joke about them after one too many beers with the guys, when it comes to talking with our partners about what's really going on (or not going on, as the case may be) in our child-proofed bedrooms, more and more of us find ourselves tongue-tied and tiptoeing. Are you part of the "sleepless, sexless" club?
You just might be, if
- You'd rather just go to bed than go to bed with your partner.
- The mind-blowing sex you once had now just blows.
- The TV is turned on more than you are.
- A playdate sounds better to you than yet another bad date night.
- The baby gets more kisses and cuddles than you do.
- You're beaten down from always having to initiate sex.
- Foreplay has become chore-play.
- "Let's get it on" are now fighting words.
But it doesn't have to be this way. According to bestselling author Ian Kerner, Ph.D., and "naughty mommy" Heidi Raykeil, it really is possible to do the hokey pokey and keep up the hanky panky. Ian and Heidi often bring very different perspectives, but they agree that sex matters . . . a lot. It's the glue that holds couples together and keeps lovers from becoming simply roommates or co-parents. Funny and frank, Love in the Time of Colic will help parents take the charge out of this once-taboo subject, and put it back where it belongs—in the bedroom.
Die meisten Sexwünsche der Männer bleiben unerfüllt – weil ihre Partnerinnen keine Ahnung haben, was ihm gefällt. Damit ist jetzt Schluss, denn Ian Kerner – Autor des Bestsellers „She comes first“ – verrät, was Männer antörnt und wie frau für ihren Partner die aufregendste Geliebte der Welt wird!