Ignore the Guy, Get the Guy: The Art of No Contact: A Woman's Survival Guide to Mastering a Breakup and Taking Back Her Power Audible Audiobook – Unabridged

Leslie Braswell (Author, Publisher), Brittany Goodwin (Narrator)

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This audiobook is for all of you beautiful women who are overwhelmed by a breakup, divorce, or who are in relationship limbo. This is your survival guide, breakup bible, and how to guide that will get through the weeks or months following a breakup with your head held high, pride and dignity intact. Every woman can reverse a breakup. It doesn’t matter what the circumstances are if you play your cards right from the beginning and learn how to shift the power back in your favor after a breakup.

Women can learn how to obtain the relationships they want by earning the love and respect from any man they choose and have the time of their lives in the process.

In this audiobook, you'll learn:

Why silence is golden...
What a man secretly expects after a breakup...
Why a strong woman steals the show...
How to prevent a man from losing interest...
Why women lose the battle of the breakup...
How to make him miss you...
How to handle your emotions...
How he broke up and what it says about him...
How to handle a breakup through Facebook and Twitter...
How to skyrocket your self-confidence...
What the biggest attraction killer is...
How to be on Mr. Ex’s mind...
What you should do to get him back...
Fatal mistakes you might be making without knowing it...

If you have ever let yourself fall to pieces, cried, begged, or pleaded for a man to take you back after a breakup, or if you have ever sought closure, you have never learned the art or the power of "No Contact". You’ll learn how to keep yourself in check to get your love life back where it needs to be. A must listen for every woman.

Listening Length

2 hours and 18 minutes
Author

Leslie Braswell
Narrator

Brittany Goodwin
Audible release date

April 17, 2020
Language

English
Publisher

Leslie Braswell
ASIN

B0876GKWTL
Version

Unabridged
Program Type

Audiobook
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Product details

Listening Length	2 hours and 18 minutes
Author	Leslie Braswell
Narrator	Brittany Goodwin
Whispersync for Voice	Ready
Audible.com Release Date	April 17, 2020
Publisher	Leslie Braswell
Program Type	Audiobook
Version	Unabridged
Language	English
ASIN	B0876GKWTL
Best Sellers Rank	#6,141 in Audible Books & Originals (See Top 100 in Audible Books & Originals) #6 in Divorce & Separation #20 in Divorce (Books) #44 in Marriage & Long-Term Partnerships

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Leanne Huckabone

This book will hold you back from healing.

Reviewed in the United States on July 4, 2018

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I honestly feel like there is an underlying message here, that can seems to take away from the recovery of the individual going through the pain of break up. That is, there is hope for the relationship. One example is, “ How to make him miss you”.

I purchased this book, as my partner of 6 years ended our relationship. We were to be married in 3 months. I desperately wanted to make contact with him and reconcile our differences. But the more I idealized him, the more denial I was about the relationship. I had to accept that there was no hope in the relationship. And that includes focusing more on my self than on him, or what he feels, and wondering if he misses me. HOPE CAN BE INCREDIBLY DESTRUCTIVE FOR A BROKEN HEART. The sooner you accept there is no hope, the sooner you can heal.

I understand how broken you feel when it’s over. And maybe your partner does come back. But you will be reliving the trauma again if after trying all the tips from this author doesn’t actually work. Get real with yourself, and write down all the negative things about your ex. Resist the urge to contact him. I thought that he was the person I was going to spend the rest of my life with. But he made his choice, and I’m not going to play any games with him to try to win him back. Just that fact he left a committed person like you says a lot. Someone who may be good for you may not be right for you.

I’m not saying everything is this book has content which can be a form of empowerment. But from someone who felt completely shatterless and hopeless, I had to admit there was no hope for THAT relationship, and to let go of the concern about him, getting back at him and ensure he doesn’t lose interest.

238 people found this helpful

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missbrowniejay

THE CURE FOR CLINGERS!

Reviewed in the United States on September 18, 2016

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I RARELY write book reviews. But this one made such an impact, I hope my review will help another woman in a similar situation.

Coming from a former self proclaimed stage 5 clinger.... This book actually CHANGED me. It was the slap in the face I needed to just STOP AND PUT THE PHONE DOWN. I had no sense of dignity when he broke up with me. I was only worried about satisfying my need to communicate with him, and completely forgot how HE viewed my actions. How he was judging my desperation.
If you've lost common sense over someone and don't know how to step back, THIS IS THE BOOK FOR YOU.

(FYI, after following this book to the letter, he came back and finally realized what he was about to throw away. MORE IMPORTANTLY, I got some self confidence back. I was able to walk away and know I could survive whether he is in my life or not.)

WHETHER YOU WANT TO GET OVER HIM, GIVE HIM SPACE, OR RECLAIM YOUR SANITY---- GET THIS BOOK

351 people found this helpful

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Misty

Be Careful How You Use It & WHO You Use It On.

Reviewed in the United States on August 28, 2017

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First, this book is written well and does have great advice... with one caveat: you will attract the wrong type of guy. While there is some great advice in here as far as having your own life and not letting your world revolve around your man, there are certain types of men out there who have a strong fear of commitment (avoidant attachment) and they are attracted to the types of girls who come off non-nonchalant about commitment. I speak from experience. So, be careful how you use this book and who you use it to attract. Make sure you have a clear understanding of what value your man places on commitment, because no amount of ignoring him is going to change how his mind processes attachment. It will take years of serious counseling to make that happen. ;)

151 people found this helpful

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RosalinaBallerina

Empowering

Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2017

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After reading this book I instantly felt empowered. Why should I be crying over my ex or praying he will reconcile? He's lucky I even dated him in the first place. This book pointed out so many of his flaws. I don't even want him back now. On to a real man please!

155 people found this helpful

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Leigh Ann Haga

Awesome Advice, Empowering

Reviewed in the United States on June 18, 2017

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This book sucked me in and made me realize I did everything wrong! Everything! I begged, I pleaded, I cried, I texted and texted about how I felt. The whole time he sat back and relaxed and ignored me or gave me a two word response. Not anymore. After reading this book and looking back, I'm not even sure I want him back in my life now! That is how good this book is. I had standards before him and now I have standards again! Going to read it over and over to remind myself of who I am and that I deserve someone that wants me, not wants me to belittle myself. Definitely a great read for those sitting and crying!

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Recommend

Reviewed in the United States on November 8, 2018

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I was desperate, I had to find a way to bring him back into my arms...I felt like I was going crazy without him. Every time I felt weak, sad and the urge to communicate with him I would read this book and it will stop me from feeling so miserable. It inspired me to stop messaging him and leave him alone for good and as I thought to myself that he will come back because I am following these steps, the days turned into months. He never contacted me but slowly I would remind myself that if he loved me he will come back. As those months felt like decades, I given up...I lost hope and finally decided that it was time to move on. I always had him in my mind.. while on dates, while I was working and while I was talking to friends and family. This book helped me to respect myself, see the strength that was buried into my sadness, and the courage to let go. After months, we found each other again..and because of the help of this book I didn’t make the same mistakes, I didn’t show him that I was miserable without him and I didn’t behave like I use to. He respects me more than ever and I believe that if it’s meant to be..one way or the other you both will find each other. I am I’m sure you won’t regret buying this book if you truely need composure and strength, some may have other opinions about it but I know that when it comes to a break up I am not alone in those thoughts of heartache.

49 people found this helpful

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I love this book..

Reviewed in the United States on February 19, 2018

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I read this book every time I have a break up, not because I want my ex back, but because it helps me heal a little faster. In a nutshell, if he doesn't call you, he doesn't want you, and you deserve someone who does.

37 people found this helpful

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Jordan

Great read for broken hearts!

Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2016

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The BEST read for anyone trying to mend a broken heart. Filled with amazing and HONEST advice! I read this shortly after breaking things off with a man who didn't value my time and was constantly giving me the cold shoulder. I took this books advice by reversing the roles and much to my surprise, he came back begging for my attention (although it was a little too late at that point). Highly recommend this read!

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Miss A. Sanderson

A Very Repetitive Read

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on August 20, 2018

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At first, I started reading the book and thought it seemed alright - nothing groundbreaking in it though.
All of it was pretty much common sense and I didn't learn much from it. Basically, the same message phrased in various ways and contexts, were repeated - and the message was also in the book title. i.e. "...No Contact..." for a man after a man breaks up with you and then he will be interested after about 8 weeks if you leave him alone apparently, if you do want him back. If I'm really honest, I found it boring after a while.

I continued to read the book though, as it had received such good reviews, overall, and that is why I had decided to purchase it. I thought it would be a valuable addition to my book collection that I could refer back to if need be. I can honestly say that I won't be keeping it, as it was so repetitive with stating the same point, in different wording. I didn't feel as though I had benefited from reading it all the way through. I wanted to put the book down shortly after I started it and had noticed a possible theme of repetition near the beginning of the book, but the only reason I read it all the way through was because I had bought it. Had it been a library book, I don't think I would have done so.

It is probably a valuable book for a female that has just had her first break up and is at the start of her dating life, so to speak, and I don't mean this in any way as condescending, but there are certain things that you realize on your own, about men as you go through life in everyday situations and as I say, I found nothing in the book that bowled me over with that "Eureka!" feeling as I was reading it.

14 people found this helpful

M.k

Great book. Helped me alot .

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 26, 2017

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Great book. Really was helpful to me I am glad I read it . I would highly recommend it to anyone that is going through a breakup or wants to get back their self control, self love and self worth.

16 people found this helpful

J Bannion

Get him back

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 10, 2018

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It is time to take control of your life and banish the unhappiness and sorrow that descended upon your heart when he, left you. This book shows you how to get your life back on track, what mistakes to avoid and how to become that confident woman you once were, or have always wanted to be, the one that most men admire. If however, he still shows no signs of returning back to you, then walk away, he is not worth it.

4 people found this helpful

Amazon Customer

brilliant book brilliant thinking also us women and our self ...

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on February 22, 2018

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brilliant book brilliant thinking also us women and our self esteem/ but it doesn't stop us being who we really are I realize I have my power / and not get caught up in all the drama... my inner light keeps me safe from negative thinking/ I am a strong woman/ the writing in this book confirms this.. I just needed too see it in print ..xgx

2 people found this helpful

Christine Edwards

It’s a great read with relationship advice

Reviewed in the United Kingdom on January 17, 2022

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I liked that this book is very informative and gives you lots of ways of how to get a guy and keep him interested. Although ultimately it’s down to everyone to work on their relationships. A good read and I would recommend buying. I brought this used but like new it was in a great condition and a good price.