Love the story, hate the language...it says it is a film for the whole family...I am so disappointed that they use a lot of foul language including the f bomb more than once. How is that a family film? Very disappointed.

I would have rated this movie 0 if I could. I saw the previews of this movie while at the Theatre watching a Christian movie. I know many Christian families that do foster care and adoption. I made the mistakes of just assuming it was a Christian movie, but boy was I wrong! This movie has cursing through out the movie. This movie has a much bigger agenda to push besides adoption. This is a very liberal, worldly movie that goes against all of God's teaching.

Unfortunately after renting this movie for $5 we had to turn it off in first quarter of the movie due to the foul language. Too bad because it looks like a good story line.

I can't remember the last time I laughed so much! We LOVED this movie. They took a heavy subject and made a movie with so much heart and passion and humor. The actors were amazing--not just Wahlberg, Octavia Spencer, and Rose Byrne, but the kids were fantastic too. We found ourselves rooting for the characters, even while cringing and groaning over their actions. If you need a laugh, a smile, or just to take your mind off something, watch this!!! We walked out of the theater happier than when we walked in. That's what I call good entertainment.

We are foster parents and this movie touched every base and emotion about what foster parents go through

The laughter and tears come in roughly equal measure in “Instant Family,” but rarely where you think they’ll be.  While the picture eventually arrives more or less where you think it will, it rarely travels in the directions you expect.  In the process, “Instant Family” becomes a special picture indeed, not only an audience-pleasing family comedy, but also likely an entertainment classic as well as an instant holiday perennial.

Pete and Ellen are a childless couple in their early forties.  Partners in business and in marriage, in approximately that order, the couple purchase and renovate houses for sale to affluent families.  Having put off starting a family because each always felt the other wasn’t ready, when the couple purchases and begins to rehabilitate a home containing five bedrooms across the street from a playground, they begin to consider the possibility of foster parenting.

With a wry notion that they can bring a disadvantaged older child into their home and pretend they started earlier, the couple begins an eight-week orientation class in foster parenting, among other like-minded couples and individuals with their own motivations.  But when Ellen and Pete find themselves faced with the challenge of simultaneously hosting three young siblings with a tragic shared background, they quickly learn that parenting is not quite as simple as renovating homes.

Written by John Morris and Sean Anders, and based on the actual real-life experiences of writer and director Anders, “Instant Family” is one comedy that steps up to the plate and bats a grand slam home run in just about every possible way.  Despite its often maudlin subject matter, this picture is a sharply observant, perceptive and heartwarming comedic masterpiece from its first frame until its last. Never aiming for cheap laughs, “Instant Family” instead mines affectionate humor from believable characters in credible situations, and in the process produces the kind of satisfied laughter that usually only can be found in real life.

Led with virtuoso, heartfelt performances by Rose Byrne and Mark Wahlberg as Ellen and Pete, there are no slackers or small performances in this perfectly-cast picture.  Special standouts include the by-the-book Tig Notaro and plain-spoken Octavia Spencer as social workers who train the rookie foster parents and ease their transition into parenthood.  Notaro and Spencer work together like old pros, and their scenes together are a highlight in a picture filled with memorable moments.

Likewise the wonderful Margo Martindale as Wahlberg’s gregarious and sometimes overbearing mother, Iliza Shlesinger as another prospective foster parent, and Javier Ronceros and Rosemary Dominguez as a veteran adoptive couple who both inspire and challenge Byrne and Wahlberg.  Julie Hagerty and Michael O’Keefe as Byrne’s parents also figure prominently into what is likely the most side-splittingly funny Thanksgiving holiday family dinner ever captured on film.

But during a year filled with strong characterizations from young performers such as Isla Fisher in “Eighth Grade” and Amandla Stenberg in “The Hate U Give,” the real breakout star of “Instant Family” is 17-year-old Isabela Moner as Lizzy, the oldest of the trio of siblings who come to live with Pete and Ellen.  Far from being just a comedic foil for the antics of the other performers, Moner builds a full-blooded characterization as a child who’s seen so much of the sad part of life that she’s unable to recognize the good parts.

Opening in 3258 theaters across North America, “Instant Family” is writer and director Anders’ third collaboration with Mark Wahlberg following 2015’s “Daddy’s Home” and its 2017 sequel.  Originally scheduled for release on February 15, 2019, the picture was moved forward by three months to coincide with the holiday season. The picture’s gala Los Angeles premiere was cancelled due to the continuing wildfires in the region, and the film was instead screened in an evacuation center for victims of the fires.

It probably won’t win any major motion picture awards, but “Instant Family” is a movie not even a Grinch can dislike.  And if you aren’t moved to tears by the picture’s denouement, consult a physician--you don’t have a heart.

The picture is rated PG-13 for thematic elements, sexual material, adult language, and numerous references to substance abuse.

I absolutely loved this movie and had to give it 5 stars! When I first saw the previews for it, I knew it was going to be good and then when I watched it last night, it was even better than expected. The previews didn't show all the good parts either like they usually do. The acting by everybody was excellent! This movie will make you laugh and pull on your heartstrings too. This is the kind of movie that makes a perfect dramedy in my opinion. I would like to say something about the movie, but I don't want to ruin anything and if you're interested in this movie, you most likely already know what it's about. I love feel good movie's like this and if you do too, hurry up and watch this whether you rent or buy! It's also based on a true story which makes the movie even more enjoyable.

As an attorney working in the Family Court system for 25 years, I will say that this movie is a very accurate representation of REALITY. I read the reviews giving it 1 star because apparently some people want POLYANNA and can't understand this movie is not meant to be some Christian dystopian representation through rose colored, stain glassed windows. As a Christian/Catholic, foster children don't need "parents" whose sole motivation is to make little Christian robots. NO. They need real parents who love them and accept them for who they are. These children have endured more REALITY than most. If you think it's your Christian duty to try to make Christian Ginger Bread cookies out of abused, neglected, abandoned children, then go back and read the Bible. This story is accurate. I would hope people like the "1 star" raters NEVER ENTER THE FOSTER CARE SYSTEM. I have dealt with :"Evangelical: do-gooders-holy rollers in Kentucky foster care system. They end up doing more harm than good. Give me a good Christian family who is interested in loving these children and providing them a home where they are not judged but accepted ANY DAY over some pretend Christian looking to pat themselves on the back I am a Christian. I don't believe my Bible tells me to knock a movie with such a strong, powerful, and important message because of language (language that is reality). I RECOMMEND THE MOVIE TO THOSE WHO WANT TO KNOW HOW THE FOSTER CARE/ADOPTION SYSTEM REALLY IS. Those who want a Christian Melodrama should watch the Jim Bakker hour--send that criminal your hard earned money. Joel Osteen haas teamed up with Kanye West, who said he's more influential than Jesus. Spend your time watching. For those who want a wonderful movie with great acting and a great message, THIS MOVIE IS FOR YOU. i WOULD GIVE IT 5 MILLION STARS IF I COULD!