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About Katy Butler
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Katy Butler is a public speaker, journalist-author, and teacher of memoir writing at Esalen Institute. She is best known for books about medicine's changing approach to the end of life. A graduate of Wesleyan University, she is the author of a critically acclaimed investigative memoir, "Knocking on Heaven's Door: The Path to a Better Way of Death" (2013); and a nonfiction handbook for the last third of life called "The Art of Dying Well: A Practical Guide to a Good End of Life" (2019.)
Her main areas of interest are: health; aging; death; bioethics; aging parents; family caregiving; the structure and shortcomings of American medicine; domestic and sexual violence; neuroscience; human behavior; addiction; psychotherapy; meditation; and religious and spiritual life.
Her writing has appeared in many publications including The New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, JAMA-Internal Medicine, The New Yorker, Atlantic, and Scientific American. It has earned the Science in Society Prize from the National Association of Science Writers; a Books for a Better Life "best first book" award; fellowships and residencies at Yaddo, Blue Mountain Center, Hedgebrook, and Mesa Refuge; and inclusion in Best American Essays, Best American Science Writing, and Best Buddhist Writing. She is a past finalist for a National Magazine Award and the Dayton Literary Peace Prize.
Her books have been praised by many leading medical, spiritual, and literary figures, including Ira Byock MD, Barbara Ehrenreich, Anne Lamott, Adam Hochschild, Jack Kornfield, Joan Halifax, Sherwin Nuland, MD, Mary Pipher, and Abraham Verghese, MD.
"Knocking on Heaven's Door," a New York Times bestseller, was named one of the ten best memoirs of the year by Publishers Weekly and was named an "Editors' Choice," a "Best Book," or a "Notable Book of the Year" by the NYT, The SF Chronicle, the Boston Globe and other publications.
The book weaves a memoir of caring for her father during a long, difficult decline with an investigative history of medical innovation and a critical exploration of why medicine now focuses on warding off death rather than preparing people for peaceful ones. It was based on a groundbreaking NYT magazine article, "What Broke My Father's Heart: How a Pacemaker Wrecked a Family's Life," a "most emailed" NYT story for more than a month.
She is one of relatively few non-physicians to give "Grand Rounds" and endowed lectures at leading medical centers, including Harvard Medical School, Mt. Sinai, Cedars-Sinai, UCSF, the VA Medical Center in Minneapolis, and Kaiser-Permanente northern California. She has appeared on scores of public television and radio programs, such as Melissa Harris Perry's former program on MSNBC and on the Diane Rehm show. She has given keynotes before more than 100 community and professional groups and at leading bookstores across the country.
Her literary agent is Amanda (Binky) Urban of ICM Partners in Manhattan. Scribner, a division of Simon & Schuster, published her first two books.
Katy was born in Grahamstown, South Africa, was raised in Oxford, England. She came to the US as a child, settling with her family in the Boston area. (Her father Jeffrey was a Wesleyan University college professor and World War II veteran who lost his left arm in combat in Italy; her mother was a gifted amateur artist and homemaker.) She attended Sarah Lawrence college and obtained her BA from Wesleyan University in Middletown, Conn. Earlier in life, she lived in a mud hut in the Venezuelan rain forest and in two Buddhist monasteries and worked as a pizza waitress, a reporter for the San Francisco Chronicle (winning awards for her coverage, with Randy Shilts, of the AIDS crisis) an investigative reporter for an alternative newspaper, and a school crossing guard. For ten years, she wrote and edited for Psychotherapy Networker, contributing many 10,000-word articles of cultural criticism and therapeutic analysis to issues that won several National Magazine Awards and nominations.
Her writing has also appeared in Vogue, Salon, Utne Reader, Yoga Journal, MORE, Tricycle: the Buddhist Quarterly, and The Whole Earth Review and Catalog. A practicing Buddhist, she lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband, professional musician Brian Donohue, who performs widely in local nursing homes, dementia units, and assisted living residences.
Katy Butler is a public speaker, journalist-author, and teacher of memoir writing at Esalen Institute. She is best known for books about medicine's changing approach to the end of life. A graduate of Wesleyan University, she is the author of a critically acclaimed investigative memoir, "Knocking on Heaven's Door: The Path to a Better Way of Death" (2013); and a nonfiction handbook for the last third of life called "The Art of Dying Well: A Practical Guide to a Good End of Life" (2019.)
Her main areas of interest are: health; aging; death; bioethics; aging parents; family caregiving; the structure and shortcomings of American medicine; domestic and sexual violence; neuroscience; human behavior; addiction; psychotherapy; meditation; and religious and spiritual life.
Her writing has appeared in many publications including The New York Times, the Wall Street Journal, JAMA-Internal Medicine, The New Yorker, Atlantic, and Scientific American. It has earned the Science in Society Prize from the National Association of Science Writers; a Books for a Better Life "best first book" award; fellowships and residencies at Yaddo, Blue Mountain Center, Hedgebrook, and Mesa Refuge; and inclusion in Best American Essays, Best American Science Writing, and Best Buddhist Writing. She is a past finalist for a National Magazine Award and the Dayton Literary Peace Prize.
Her books have been praised by many leading medical, spiritual, and literary figures, including Ira Byock MD, Barbara Ehrenreich, Anne Lamott, Adam Hochschild, Jack Kornfield, Joan Halifax, Sherwin Nuland, MD, Mary Pipher, and Abraham Verghese, MD.
"Knocking on Heaven's Door," a New York Times bestseller, was named one of the ten best memoirs of the year by Publishers Weekly and was named an "Editors' Choice," a "Best Book," or a "Notable Book of the Year" by the NYT, The SF Chronicle, the Boston Globe and other publications.
The book weaves a memoir of caring for her father during a long, difficult decline with an investigative history of medical innovation and a critical exploration of why medicine now focuses on warding off death rather than preparing people for peaceful ones. It was based on a groundbreaking NYT magazine article, "What Broke My Father's Heart: How a Pacemaker Wrecked a Family's Life," a "most emailed" NYT story for more than a month.
She is one of relatively few non-physicians to give "Grand Rounds" and endowed lectures at leading medical centers, including Harvard Medical School, Mt. Sinai, Cedars-Sinai, UCSF, the VA Medical Center in Minneapolis, and Kaiser-Permanente northern California. She has appeared on scores of public television and radio programs, such as Melissa Harris Perry's former program on MSNBC and on the Diane Rehm show. She has given keynotes before more than 100 community and professional groups and at leading bookstores across the country.
Her literary agent is Amanda (Binky) Urban of ICM Partners in Manhattan. Scribner, a division of Simon & Schuster, published her first two books.
Katy was born in Grahamstown, South Africa, was raised in Oxford, England. She came to the US as a child, settling with her family in the Boston area. (Her father Jeffrey was a Wesleyan University college professor and World War II veteran who lost his left arm in combat in Italy; her mother was a gifted amateur artist and homemaker.) She attended Sarah Lawrence college and obtained her BA from Wesleyan University in Middletown, Conn. Earlier in life, she lived in a mud hut in the Venezuelan rain forest and in two Buddhist monasteries and worked as a pizza waitress, a reporter for the San Francisco Chronicle (winning awards for her coverage, with Randy Shilts, of the AIDS crisis) an investigative reporter for an alternative newspaper, and a school crossing guard. For ten years, she wrote and edited for Psychotherapy Networker, contributing many 10,000-word articles of cultural criticism and therapeutic analysis to issues that won several National Magazine Awards and nominations.
Her writing has also appeared in Vogue, Salon, Utne Reader, Yoga Journal, MORE, Tricycle: the Buddhist Quarterly, and The Whole Earth Review and Catalog. A practicing Buddhist, she lives in the San Francisco Bay Area with her husband, professional musician Brian Donohue, who performs widely in local nursing homes, dementia units, and assisted living residences.
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This “comforting…thoughtful” (The Washington Post) guide to maintaining a high quality of life—from resilient old age to the first inklings of a serious illness to the final breath—by the New York Times bestselling author of Knocking on Heaven’s Door is a “roadmap to the end that combines medical, practical, and spiritual guidance” (The Boston Globe).
“A common sense path to define what a ‘good’ death looks like” (USA TODAY), The Art of Dying Well is about living as well as possible for as long as possible and adapting successfully to change. Packed with extraordinarily helpful insights and inspiring true stories, award-winning journalist Katy Butler shows how to thrive in later life (even when coping with a chronic medical condition), how to get the best from our health system, and how to make your own “good death” more likely. Butler explains how to successfully age in place, why to pick a younger doctor and how to have an honest conversation with them, when not to call 911, and how to make your death a sacred rite of passage rather than a medical event. This handbook of preparations—practical, communal, physical, and spiritual—will help you make the most of your remaining time, be it decades, years, or months.
Based on Butler’s experience caring for aging parents, and hundreds of interviews with people who have successfully navigated our fragmented health system and helped their loved ones have good deaths, The Art of Dying Well also draws on the expertise of national leaders in family medicine, palliative care, geriatrics, oncology, and hospice. This “empowering guide clearly outlines the steps necessary to prepare for a beautiful death without fear” (Shelf Awareness).
“A common sense path to define what a ‘good’ death looks like” (USA TODAY), The Art of Dying Well is about living as well as possible for as long as possible and adapting successfully to change. Packed with extraordinarily helpful insights and inspiring true stories, award-winning journalist Katy Butler shows how to thrive in later life (even when coping with a chronic medical condition), how to get the best from our health system, and how to make your own “good death” more likely. Butler explains how to successfully age in place, why to pick a younger doctor and how to have an honest conversation with them, when not to call 911, and how to make your death a sacred rite of passage rather than a medical event. This handbook of preparations—practical, communal, physical, and spiritual—will help you make the most of your remaining time, be it decades, years, or months.
Based on Butler’s experience caring for aging parents, and hundreds of interviews with people who have successfully navigated our fragmented health system and helped their loved ones have good deaths, The Art of Dying Well also draws on the expertise of national leaders in family medicine, palliative care, geriatrics, oncology, and hospice. This “empowering guide clearly outlines the steps necessary to prepare for a beautiful death without fear” (Shelf Awareness).
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Katy Butler
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In this visionary memoir, based on a groundbreaking New York Times Magazine story, award-winning journalist Katy Butler ponders her parents’ desires for “Good Deaths” and the forces within medicine that stood in the way.
Katy Butler was living thousands of miles from her vigorous and self-reliant parents when the call came: a crippling stroke had left her proud seventy-nine-year-old father unable to fasten a belt or complete a sentence. Tragedy at first drew the family closer: her mother devoted herself to caregiving, and Butler joined the twenty-four million Americans helping shepherd parents through their final declines.
Then doctors outfitted her father with a pacemaker, keeping his heart going but doing nothing to prevent his six-year slide into dementia, near-blindness, and misery. When he told his exhausted wife, “I’m living too long,” mother and daughter were forced to confront a series of wrenching moral questions. When does death stop being a curse and become a blessing? Where is the line between saving a life and prolonging a dying? When do you say to a doctor, “Let my loved one go?”
When doctors refused to disable the pacemaker, condemning her father to a prolonged and agonizing death, Butler set out to understand why. Her quest had barely begun when her mother took another path. Faced with her own grave illness, she rebelled against her doctors, refused open-heart surgery, and met death head-on.
With a reporter’s skill and a daughter’s love, Butler explores what happens when our terror of death collides with the technological imperatives of medicine. Her provocative thesis is that modern medicine, in its pursuit of maximum longevity, often creates more suffering than it prevents.
This revolutionary blend of memoir and investigative reporting lays bare the tangled web of technology, medicine, and commerce that dying has become. And it chronicles the rise of Slow Medicine, a new movement trying to reclaim the “Good Deaths” our ancestors prized.
Knocking on Heaven’s Door is a map through the labyrinth of a broken medical system. It will inspire the difficult conversations we need to have with loved ones as it illuminates the path to a better way of death.
Katy Butler was living thousands of miles from her vigorous and self-reliant parents when the call came: a crippling stroke had left her proud seventy-nine-year-old father unable to fasten a belt or complete a sentence. Tragedy at first drew the family closer: her mother devoted herself to caregiving, and Butler joined the twenty-four million Americans helping shepherd parents through their final declines.
Then doctors outfitted her father with a pacemaker, keeping his heart going but doing nothing to prevent his six-year slide into dementia, near-blindness, and misery. When he told his exhausted wife, “I’m living too long,” mother and daughter were forced to confront a series of wrenching moral questions. When does death stop being a curse and become a blessing? Where is the line between saving a life and prolonging a dying? When do you say to a doctor, “Let my loved one go?”
When doctors refused to disable the pacemaker, condemning her father to a prolonged and agonizing death, Butler set out to understand why. Her quest had barely begun when her mother took another path. Faced with her own grave illness, she rebelled against her doctors, refused open-heart surgery, and met death head-on.
With a reporter’s skill and a daughter’s love, Butler explores what happens when our terror of death collides with the technological imperatives of medicine. Her provocative thesis is that modern medicine, in its pursuit of maximum longevity, often creates more suffering than it prevents.
This revolutionary blend of memoir and investigative reporting lays bare the tangled web of technology, medicine, and commerce that dying has become. And it chronicles the rise of Slow Medicine, a new movement trying to reclaim the “Good Deaths” our ancestors prized.
Knocking on Heaven’s Door is a map through the labyrinth of a broken medical system. It will inspire the difficult conversations we need to have with loved ones as it illuminates the path to a better way of death.
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