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About Lisa Qualls
Lisa Qualls and her husband, Russ, are the parents of twelve children by birth and adoption, and sometimes more through foster care. She is the creator of onethankfulmom.com and a popular speaker at events for adoptive and foster parents.
She is also the co-founder of theadoptionconnection.com, a podcast and resource site for adoptive moms. Lisa mentors and encourages adoptive parents so they can find courage and hope in their journeys of loving their children well.
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Blog postHello friend! It may seem like I’ve fallen off the face of the earth, but I’ve just been a little quiet in this space. I’ve missed you!
We’re coming up on the one-year anniversary of the release of The Connected Parent. It’s been amazing to see this dream come true. Due to Covid, there were no book signings and no launch party, but my days were packed with online interviews and speaking. The book continues to do very well and I’m so thankful.
The Connected Parent
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Blog postI asked for your all-time favorite works of fiction and the answers poured in! I didn’t expect such an amazing response to a 24-hour Instastory but you went above and beyond to share your favorites.
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In no particular order, these are the novels you recommended. If a series was recommended, I tried to list the first b1 year ago Read more -
Blog postPause It’s taken me a while to find my word for 2021. But several things dropped into place giving me a clearer vision, and “Pause” is the answer.
I want to Pause in several areas of my life.
Relational: I want to Pause when interacting, especially when tension is high. In that Pause, I can choose to respond rather than react. Last night, the final thing I did before going to bed was apologize to my son for the way I had reacted to him earlier that evening. A two-second pause1 year ago Read more -
Blog postIt’s been a confetti kind of month! My family celebrated our happiness in a big Covid-style way. Nearly one month ago The Connected Parent released into the world. After eight years of work, the book was born. There were many times when I didn’t know if it would be completed and I’m deeply thankful to…
The post The Connected Parent, Dr.Karyn Purvis, and Confetti appeared first on Lisa Qualls | One Thankful Mom.
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Blog postHello, friend! Are you easing out of quarantine or sheltering in place? For me, it feels more difficult to figure out what to do now that restrictions are changing. I have big news coming about the book, but let me fill you in on family first! Since I last posted, Annarose returned home from Mexico…
The post Quarantine, Family, and a Book Launch appeared first on Lisa Qualls | One Thankful Mom.
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Blog postDo you ever wonder if you’re expecting too much from your child? Or maybe too little? How can you support your child and have appropriate expectations?
Eileen Devine, LCSW, joins us on episode #77 of The Adoption Connection podcast to talk about radical acceptance from a neurobehavioral model. She offers practical tips you’re doing to love.
Courage and hope,
Lisa
The post Accepting Our Kids Without Giving Up on Them appeared first on Lisa Qualls | One Thankful2 years ago Read more -
Blog postMy friends, it’s been far too long since I’ve written to you. If I had a blog post for every time I’ve thought about writing, you would already be tired of reading.
How are you? How are you holding up?
Do you feel the uncertainty of these days? It seems we swing back and forth from, “Let’s stay home and make cookies!” to “This is serious and people are dying.”
Many times I’m not sure what to feel.
I want to have a lighthearted response, but the truth is I don’t2 years ago Read more -
Blog postWith the sorority sisters gone for the holiday, we emerged into the beautiful house. It was 1991 and we had three children ages 4, 2, and seven months. Believe it or not, we were house parents in a sorority at Cornell University in Ithaca, New York. Graduate school had motivated us to drive across the…
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Blog postI wish I was one of those people who dreamed of loved ones in heaven. It’s only happened a couple of times since we lost Kalkidan. This was one of those times.
Our family was gathered around a table. I was sitting at one end and the table was long with so many of us together. We were talking and laughing when Kalkidan ran into the room.
Shouts went up, “She’s here! She’s here! Kalkidan is here!”
She ran to me, crawled into my lap, and rested her head against my c3 years ago Read more -
Blog postKids need simple tools for managing their schedules. They often become very anxious when they don’t know what’s coming next. This is magnified in kids with early trauma. I’ve been using this low-tech, back-to-basics tool for many years. It’s so simple, I’m almost embarrassed to share it, but it just might be useful to you!…
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You Can Effectively Parent an Adopted or Foster Child
Parenting under the best of circumstances is difficult, but because of their unique needs, raising children from hard places brings additional challenges. You might discover that traditional techniques that may have worked for you with your birth children are not working with your adopted or foster child.
Renown child development expert Dr. Karyn Purvis will give you practical advice and powerful tools you can use to encourage secure attachment in your child, just as she did for coauthor Lisa Qualls. You will benefit from Karyn’s decades of research and understanding, plus Lisa’s hands-on experience and successful implementation of the strategies shared in this book.
You will learn how to simplify your approach using scripts, nurture your child, combat chronic fear, teach respect, and develop other valuable skills to add to your parenting toolbox.
The Connected Parent will help you lovingly guide your children and bring renewed hope and healing to your family.
Are you a foster or adoptive parent needing hope for this complex and sometimes lonely journey?
Do you love your kids but feel discouraged?
Are you misunderstood by people around you?
In Faith, Hope, & Connection: A 30-Day Devotional for Adoptive and Foster Parents, you’ll find:
- Real, often raw, stories from adoptive and foster parents in the trenches;
- Scripture and faith-filled hope, pointing you to Jesus;
- Honest reflections speaking courage to your soul and reminding you that you are not alone.
This devotional is a gift to you from 30 authors, all foster and adoptive parents, who offer a window into their own lives and families. You’ll recognize yourself time and time again in their words. Faith, Hope, & Connection: A 30-Day Devotional for Adoptive and Foster Parents is a treasure-trove of wisdom and grace for foster and adoptive families.