I think only the part where the actor says, “I don’t know what to do”, that really represents what this story is trying to say. People deal with adversity in different ways, but the control freak wants to assert control on things that he cannot control, even on things beyond his own grave. It is hard to have the courage to recognize that there are things that are beyond one’s control and accept them. May we all have the courage to let people we love live their own lives.