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About Melanie Cullen
Melanie herself enjoys the blessings of Get It Together, relying on her own personal planner for many years. And she rests easy knowing that its road map will bless her loved ones when the time comes.
She lives in Northern California, near loved ones who appreciate that her affairs are truly in order.
Melanie welcomes your inquiry, whether with questions or comments, or to schedule an interview, presentation, or signing. You can contact her at MelanieCullenSchultz@gmail.com.
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Blog postWhen something happens to you, where do they start?
On a sunny spring morning, my husband and I relaxed on a train crossing France, enjoying the scenery, our books, and cappuccinos. After 10 days of vacation, we were still, serene, and looking forward to time with family.
At the same time, at our route’s end, my daughter was increasingly concerned about our whereabouts and arrival. To my (later) chagrin, I had forgotten to forward our itinerary to her! While it9 years ago Read more -
Blog postRoutinely, but sadly, the news reports of residential emergencies—a fire in a family home, regional fires destroying dozens of homes, tremendous storms and flooding. Some of you reading this have experienced home disasters firsthand, living through a frantic evacuation, severe loss of home and personal items, and the uphill climb of rebuilding. All this can only be made worse when your important records have also perished.
Help from Get It Together
For help along the way—creat9 years ago Read more -
Blog postHow will they access my bank and brokerage accounts?
When you die, or if you are incapacitated, your loved ones will need to access your financial accounts. In the case of your incapacitation, someone will manage your finances, including paying bills, depositing any checks, managing necessary financial transactions (e.g., purchases, deposits, sales, transfers), and preparing your tax returns. When you die, someone will wrap up your financial affairs—the tasks described above, prepa10 years ago Read more -
Blog postHow will your loved ones track those “invisible” bill-pay charges?
Over time, I have set up automatic payment for several of my bills:
• My monthly mortgage bill is paid by a recurring, automatic charge (direct debit) to my checking account. Two insurance premiums are paid the same way.
• Other bills are automatically charged to my major credit card: newspaper, online services, gym membership, and movies by mail.
While these methods are commo10 years ago Read more -
Blog postHow will getting organized now benefit you over time, time after time?
When my mother died, I was awash in questions, grief, tasks, decisions—and all of that layered on top of my already-busy life far from Mom’s home. I decided then that I will not put my loved ones through the same ordeal when I die. I went home and put together my binder of important records—the binder that ignited the Get It Togetherworkbook, CD, and binder/tab set.
With my records organized and complete10 years ago Read more -
Blog postYou want to leave a last goodbye, but how can you do that today?
Getting your affairs in order, thinking of your own death, is emotionally hard. Even harder may be facing the task of creating a last goodbye for your loved ones. Almost any other task is more attractive, whether rain or shine, snow, gloom of night. Still, getting everything in order has an attractive pull: You know that your loved ones will cherish your goodbye—and you’ll be pleased when the task is done.
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Blog postIf something happens to you, who should your loved ones call—and what should they ask about?
If you work for an employer, your loved ones know that you go off to work each day—even if you “go” to work in a home office in your pajamas. But do your loved ones know who to call if something happens to you? Do they have contact information for your employer or business partners? Do they know what they need to ask about if you’re incapacitated or when you die?
Your loved ones11 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhile you’re organizing your records and considering loved ones wrapping up your affairs, you may wonder how to plan for your pets and livestock. What will happen to them when you die? Who will take them and care for them? Here are some tips for planning care for your animals when you’re no longer able.
Today, while you have the time and you’re able to do so, take the following steps:
1. Identify a home. Identify the type of home you’d like for your animals—whether you h11 years ago Read more -
Blog postIf something happens to you, who watches over your health care, finances and other important matters?
No matter your life circumstances—whether you’re young and raising a family, or elderly and caring for yourself—you have plenty of responsibilities. For example, you make decisions about your health care (selecting doctors, choosing treatments) and handle financial matters (paying bills, choosing insurance, filing tax returns, managing your personal property and perhaps real estate11 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhat happens to your retirement accounts when you die?
Despite the rough economy, you’ll probably leave money in your retirement accounts when you die. Here is a brief overview of what will happen to those accounts. Also, to ensure that your loved ones take possession in ways that maximize value, here are some tips for you to follow today.
Probate & Taxes
The money passes directly to the beneficiaries you have named on the account. Even if your estate11 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhat is it—and why does it have such a bad reputation?
We’ve all heard of probate, and it seems we all know it’s “bad” and to be avoided. But what is it really? And, given your circumstances, should you make arrangements to avoid it? If so, how can you do that?
First, an overview of what it is.
What is probate?
Probate is a legal process for distributing property that has been left through a will or that belongs to someone who died without a will. D11 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhere and how should I store them?
Some years back, while discussing Get It Together at a retirement community, a participant posed this dilemma: If I collect up all my important records, how can I ensure they will be safe from theft? If someone breaks into my home today, they won’t be able to find a thing, because all my records are scattered, filed, and hidden!
Well, that’s the dilemma. Not only would a thief have a hard time finding them, but so will your loved on11 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhat is a death certificate—and why do loved ones need it?
A death certificate is the official record of the death of an individual and includes the dates of birth and death, gender, place of residence, and location and cause of death. It is prepared by the county health department, recorded in the county and maintained by county or state offices.
Why is it needed?
Other than simply recording the death, why do loved ones need it? Well, the agent of the de12 years ago Read more -
Blog postIf something happens to you, what should—and shouldn’t—you have stored there?
You can rent a safe deposit box at your bank for storing just about anything you want. There are no federal laws, and few state laws, governing the content of safe deposit boxes. Your bank’s contract with you is the best source for identifying any content restrictions.
Who has access to your box—and when?
Access to the box is controlled by you. You can be the sole owner or you can establis12 years ago Read more -
Blog postIf something happens to you while your children are young, who will care for them?
It takes time and energy to get your important records in order. Some of the most important—yet most difficult—steps are those regarding care for your minor children. The paperwork isn’t difficult, but the decisions may be hard. It’s hard to imagine your own death, especially while your children are young. It’s also hard to select a guardian; you can think of pros and cons to any choice. Then the issues ar12 years ago Read more -
Blog postWhether you use Get It Together or handle the job on your own, there are a few basic steps to completing and maintaining your personal planner.
1. Get started! Set aside one- to two-hour windows—sufficient to be productive, but not overwhelming. If using Get It Together, read the two introductory chapters—"About This Book" and "Completing Your Planner."
2. Prepare your planner pages. If using Get It Together, decide whether you will fill in the workbo12 years ago Read more -
Blog postFirst, let’s consider the process—preparing important documents, collecting related records, storing them securely, talking with loved ones and maintaining your personal “planner” (the name I’ll use for your compiled records). You can prepare your planner yourself, relying simply on the tips in this column. Or you can turn to Get It Together (Nolo) for help.
Get It Together provides a framework.
Get It Together: Organize Your Records So Your Family Won’t Have To provides12 years ago Read more -
Blog postWelcome to Get It Together Now, a new column about organizing your important records—for yourself and, eventually, for your loved ones.
If you’ve ever pitched in for someone who has become incapacitated, or if you’ve helped to wrap up an estate following a death, you know how hard it is. It’s hard emotionally to step in to the void left by that person, however temporarily. It can be hard spiritually to lose the companionship of one you love and the partnership of one you rely on. A12 years ago Read more
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Do your loved ones know where to find your life insurance policies, online banking passwords, real estate deeds, or even your will?
If you’re like a lot of people, you keep important information—from the whereabouts of family heirlooms to online passwords to automatic bill-pay details—in your head or stashed in the odd desk drawer. Unfortunately, this disorganization will likely cause hassles for those who someday take care of you or your estate.
Get It Together provides an easy, straightforward method to help you and others keep track of:
- secured places and passwords
- employment records
- insurance policies
- real estate records
- tax records
- retirement accounts
- estate planning documents
- funeral arrangements
- letters to loved ones
We’ve reorganized this 9th edition to make the process more straightforward. In the first half, you’ll find the pages to create your personal planner. In the second half, you’ll find step-by-step instructions and helpful resources.
With downloadable forms: organize your records using worksheets (details inside). Save the worksheets to your computer and then complete, print, and store them at your convenience.