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My new go-to premarital counseling resource

Reviewed in the United States on March 2, 2019

As a counselor, I’ve read pretty much everything out there when it comes to marriage and pre-marriage books and this one takes the cake. It is biblical, authentic, thorough, yet succinct. I love the way Scott writes with such an authentic voice. He provides real life couple examples, Scripture references, and application questions for individual and couple discussion. The topics covered are fantastic and essential for premarital preparation. I highly recommend Ready or Knot! (I received a copy in advance from the publisher so I could get an idea of what the book was like and give my honest review.)

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Kevin M

Should be called “12 conversations every extremely religious couple needs to have”

Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2019

This book lost me completely when it said 1)Christians need to end their romantic relationship with non Christians and 2) dont kiss with tongue before marriage and don’t lay down with your loved one on the couch before you’re married. Awful advice and actually pushes me away from Christianity.

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Tiff

My new go-to premarital counseling resource

Reviewed in the United States on March 2, 2019

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BWang

"If your going to put a ring on your finger you need to put this book in your hand"!!!

Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2019

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There is so much truth being shared in Marriage Books today. Still, there is one area I have noticed that has been lacking in the marriage book category, helping couples process before they tie the knot. That is why this book is such an important addition for couples pursuing engagement or pursuing their wedding day...and have they truly processed if they are ready or knot! Scott Kedersha takes couples through this process with 12 conversations that every couple needs to have before they get so focused on the color scheme and location of their wedding. Marriage is such a joy, but for many it can also be one of the loneliest and dissatisfying relationships they could have never imagined. That's why this book is such a game-changer, because it allows couples to have essential conversations and whether or not they should pursue to walk down the aisle. I see Ready or Knot going on the offensive and giving couples a great opportunity to process through whether they are ready for the next step and ready for to death to us part. I know this book is going to be a beautiful ministry to so many as couples will look back through the hard processing and be so thankful they had these conversations before they pursued engagement or said 'I do'. I'm also excited to hear the stories of couples that walked away from these conversations knowing that they need not to pursue marriage. Though that would be hard, it is much easier than an empty marriage or divorce! If your already married, know that you can glean so much wisdom for your marriage even though the conversations are directed to those that aren't married yet.

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Jill B Cook

Knot This Time!

Reviewed in the United States on February 25, 2019

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If you are seriously dating or engaged, then this book is a MUST READ! The 12 conversations that every couple needs to have before marriage will set your relationship up for success. I have seen firsthand how having these conversations can help couples navigate through the challenges of life and thrive in their marriage. Having experienced a failed marriage myself, I was very intentional in my preparation for my current marriage. Much of the content of this book was covered in our Merge premarital class taught by Scott Kedersha, and I'm so thankful that he's now made it available to many others with this book.

Seriously, GET THIS BOOK!! You and your (future) spouse will be blessed by it!

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Tracy Sinclair

Ready to have 12 Conversations....

Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2019

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Ready or Knot? Should you read it? Should you dare have those 12 conversations? YES AND YES! I had the privilege of receiving a copy from the publisher so that I could give a review! I am so glad to be able to endorse this book! This has the conversations every couple should have who are coming to the point of becoming engaged but also who are engaged! Scott weaves interviews of couples in each chapter along with scripture through and through and closing each chapter with a section called " Am I Ready?" and "Strengthening the Knot" these two sections have questions to help you apply what was read in that chapter and then a Closing Prayer!
Yes, there are many books available on this subject BUT this will be the book I give to couples from now on! It is an easy read but don't take that lightly! I have been married for 35 years and wish I had this book back then but am glad I have it now and have begun applying these conversations in my marriage! It is worth the investment to buy this book!

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MC Cross

A MUST BUY for every couple who is dating, engaged or already married!!

Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2019

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I was given an advance copy of this book and have had a chance to read it. Even though I've been married for 18 yrs this book revealed areas in my marriage that needed improvement. I so wish I had this book 20 years ago when we were dating.
GET THIS BOOK!! Excellent for those seriously dating, engaged, just married and beyond. Thanks Scott Kersersha for writing such an awesome book. Great real life stories, amazing questions at the end of each chapter to reflect and ask each other, and thoughtful ways of strengthening the knot we are tying together. MUST BUY!!

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Steven R Sherwood

Destined to be the go-to manual for young couples

Reviewed in the United States on February 6, 2019

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I received a copy of Scott's book to preview from Baker Publishing. I finished it then purchased two more to give away. All I can say is "WOW". Scott Kedersha has penned one of the best premarital books. It is the perfect blend of grace, truth, and compassion sprinkled with real-life stories. His heart to help couples beats on every page. The questions provided with each chapter, as well as the knot-tying tips are great launching pads for conversations that are necessary for any healthy relationship. #ReadyorKnot is destined to be the go-to manual for those who want to bless young couples with a foundational view of marriage that is hopeful and beautiful.

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Samantha Henley

Perfect for couples looking for Godly Counseling

Reviewed in the United States on October 26, 2021

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Read this book with my now husband as a fun thing to do before we got married and he honestly loved it and was into it more than I expected him to be. Definitely lots of thought provoking conversation and lots of laughs. We were able to see the things we were on the same page about and what we may need to compromise on. Definitely a great book to read some any couple looking to reconnect on a level deeper with each other and God’s purpose for us in marriage.

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Cassie

I highly recommend this book for any dating or engaged couple!

Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2019

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I highly recommend this book for any dating or engaged couple! I think all 12 of the conversations/topics discussed in this book are so crucial for couples to have before marriage. I loved the authenticity, transparency, and real life stories of other couples in this book who have struggled or had victories in their marriage. You can really tell that the author pours out all the wisdom he has learned from God over the years from being a marriage pastor, husband, and helping thousands of engaged couples prepare for marriage. I appreciated the practical steps and questions in each chapter that help you put action items to what you just read. And even though these are "12 conversations to have before marriage", my husband and I have been married for 2 years and everything in this book was still very applicable to us. After reading this book and walking through the questions together, we learned SO many new things about each other that we never would have thought to ask or discuss. We also got to go in depth over areas in our marriage that were healthy and areas we want to take ground on. I also appreciated how everything was backed up with scripture and gave us applicable verses or passages for what we learned. I'm very grateful for this resource, and I recommend it for any engaged or already married couple!!

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Rebekah

If you want a Christ based premarital book this is amazing

Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2022

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We loved this book. It really helped us have tough conversations or conversations we wouldn’t have even realized we needed to have. Yes, it is Christ based and always goes back to the Biblical view on marriage, which was what we wanted. If you don’t want that, you probably would want to skip this book.
The chapters are easy to get through and the wrap up of each chapter is nice, because you have things you think about on your own and then discuss together.
It’s helped us grow as a couple and as individuals and get closer to God as well.

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Kevin M

Should be called “12 conversations every extremely religious couple needs to have”

Reviewed in the United States on February 9, 2019

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