The writing, character development, acting, all 5 star! This show opens a whole new world, exposes and squashes myths, and mostly, is about what a REAL family is like, or can be like. I laughed at things, like one brother telling the other to "light a match after using the bathroom"... and definitely cried with them. They just became human. These people, these writers, weren't afraid to keep it real. Binged watched the first three seasons. Took my time on the 4th, EAGERLY awaiting the next!!