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What About Us?: A New Parents Guide to Safeguarding Your Over-Anxious, Over-Extended, Sleep-Deprived Relationship Kindle Edition
- Print length128 pages
- LanguageEnglish
- PublisherFamilius
- Publication dateNovember 9, 2021
- File size94835 KB
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-Alanis Morissette
"With its real-life illustrations and digestible sections, What About Us gets straight to the heart of the matter, showing (not just telling) couples how having a baby impacts on their relationship, what’s really going on inside both of them, what the big issues are and how to get through this trying time together. Overwhelmed and sleep-deprived parents will see themselves in the pages and find reassurance that they’re normal, not alone and it won't last forever."
-Elly Taylor, perinatal relationship specialist, author and founder of Becoming Us.
"Parents often experience tension in their relationships after baby, but often have limited time to read about, reflect, and work through challenges. What About Us? is the answer parents have been waiting for. Through powerful, relatable visuals and Karen Kleiman's decades of experience working with families, partners now have an opportunity to see they're not alone and have a roadmap to move forward together."
—Stephanie Greunke, MS, RD, CPT, PMH-C
"Practical, entertaining, informative, consoling, and sometimes inspiring, "What About Us?: A New Parents Guide to Safeguarding Your Over-Anxious, Over-Extended, Sleep-Deprived Relationship" is essential reading for new (and not so new) parents struggling with a new born addition to their family." - Midwest Book Reviews
About the Author
Karen Kleiman is a well-known international maternal mental-health expert with over thirty-five years of experience as a psychotherapist, teacher, and writer. As an advocate and author of several groundbreaking books on postpartum depression and anxiety, her pioneering work has influenced personal and professional populations within the perinatal mental health community for decades. In 1988, Karen founded The Postpartum Stress Center, a treatment and training facility for prenatal and postpartum depression/anxiety disorders where she treats individuals and couples.
Molly McIntyre is an artist, illustrator, and animator living in Brooklyn, New York, with her family. Her work has been featured in the upcoming Netflix series Worn Stories, the book Good Moms Have Scary Thoughts (Karen Kleiman, Familius), Bitch magazine, Everyday Feminism, Scary Mommy, and Psychology Today, and shown in exhibitions throughout the US and in Japan.
Product details
- ASIN : B08WK8ZYZG
- Publisher : Familius (November 9, 2021)
- Publication date : November 9, 2021
- Language : English
- File size : 94835 KB
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- Print length : 128 pages
- Lending : Not Enabled
- Best Sellers Rank: #824,570 in Kindle Store (See Top 100 in Kindle Store)
- #424 in Fatherhood (Kindle Store)
- #539 in Depression (Kindle Store)
- #785 in Parenting Babies & Toddlers
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About the author

Karen Kleiman, MSW, LCSW, founder of The Postpartum Stress Center, LLC (postpartumstress.com), and well-known, international expert on the topic of postpartum depression, has been treating pregnant and postpartum women and their families for over 34 years.
A native of Saint Louis, MO., Karen has lived in the Philadelphia area since 1982 with her two children and her husband. In 1988 she founded The Postpartum Stress Center, the premier treatment and professional training center for prenatal and postpartum depression & anxiety.
In addition to her clinical practice, Karen provides specialized post-graduate training programs and inservices for healthcare professionals as well as consultation and supervision to therapists.
Follow The Postpartum Stress Center on IG @postpartumstress
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This book is validating. It has many scenarios parents may encounter from not being able to get pregnant, a lot of pressure on dads to be “strong,” and how to handle boundaries with other people around your child.
The book is in a handwriting print, and it somehow feels comforting. It seems more personal and easy to read.
I will definitely keep this to refer back to when I’m a parent. It was helpful to read through this in hopes I can use some of these tools when I encounter the real-life scenarios.

Reviewed in the United States on February 22, 2022
This book is validating. It has many scenarios parents may encounter from not being able to get pregnant, a lot of pressure on dads to be “strong,” and how to handle boundaries with other people around your child.
The book is in a handwriting print, and it somehow feels comforting. It seems more personal and easy to read.
I will definitely keep this to refer back to when I’m a parent. It was helpful to read through this in hopes I can use some of these tools when I encounter the real-life scenarios.




The content of the book is relatable, easy to understand and accessible, and presented well. The book itself is hardback, sturdily bound, and comes with a built in ribbon bookmark, perfect for new parents who can only read small portions at a time in between cries (their own, or the baby’s, no judgement here or from the author). The only thing I had to get used to while reading was the handwriting-type font. It was jarring at first but I got used to it quickly and it became normal.
Content wise, non-binary, same sex, and heterosexual couples are depicted in this book. There is a section for mom and a section for dad (or the parent who mostly fits those roles). The author includes situations related to being a stay at home parent as well as feelings about going back to work after baby.
This book just makes me feel SEEN and NORMAL as a new parent. It doesn’t replace in person therapy with a real person but this is an exceptional place to start. I highly recommend it to all expecting couples and that it be given as a gift to them. Very very well done and I’ll be reading more from this author.
I think maybe this book might be better treated as a reference book, where you just read through the section about whatever specific challenge is resonating with you at the moment — or at least read it in very small snippets, as probably makes sense in the life of a busy parent. The entire book is structured in little two-page snippets that you can read whenever you have a spare moment - and maybe reading too many snippets in one go is a recipe for getting overwhelmed.
The advice seems basically sound, though, even if it doesn’t contain anything that should be particularly earth shattering. Sometimes you just need someone to say it to you. And this book offers to fill that role. It wasn’t quite for us at our present stage, but we could see it being helpful to others. Just read it in snippets and ideally talk through the snippets one at a time with your partner, would be my advice.

I think maybe this book might be better treated as a reference book, where you just read through the section about whatever specific challenge is resonating with you at the moment — or at least read it in very small snippets, as probably makes sense in the life of a busy parent. The entire book is structured in little two-page snippets that you can read whenever you have a spare moment - and maybe reading too many snippets in one go is a recipe for getting overwhelmed.
The advice seems basically sound, though, even if it doesn’t contain anything that should be particularly earth shattering. Sometimes you just need someone to say it to you. And this book offers to fill that role. It wasn’t quite for us at our present stage, but we could see it being helpful to others. Just read it in snippets and ideally talk through the snippets one at a time with your partner, would be my advice.

It is honest and non-judgmental. There is joy in being a new parent, but there are a lot of unexpected mood swings and being out of sync with the partner. It also gives some good advice to help get perspective and when to know when it may be more. Definitely worth the read for new parents.