When my daughter became a teen and her language became quite rough, I counseled her that the words she chooses makes a lasting first impression. I explained to her that people with an education and a good moral compass choose not to use such words in their everyday conversations. Several years later, I overheard her in the backyard with a group of her friends when one of them said the 'F' word over and over. My daughter stood up and said, 'Excuse me, your Masters degree is not showing.'
I guess my age is showing with my dislike and impatience with such constant dialog. My generation did not grow up with such a vocabulary and truthfully, I find it quite vulgar and disrespectful. So, I'm not 'with it'. If that means that my speech is clean, I approach life with common sense and respect for others and plan my goals and work that plan, then so be it. I don't want to be 'with it'.
In addition, this movie moves very s l o w l y. I stopped it at about the 40 minute mark. Just couldn't sit through anymore immature dialog and activity.
Maybe you'll fare better.