My husband, the very scattered one, is actually reading it. I had my doubts he'd open it, or read it front to back. This book has saved our 19 year marriage! We have been to a psychiatrist repeatedly for my same problem with him and now I see how he thinks sooo differently from me. We've talked about what I need from him relationally and where I can see his point of view. Wow. I had to ask his forgiveness big time. We are very thankful for this book.