Great book! I'm expecting my first but like to read and keep up to date with all the ways of parenting! It takes a village to raise children and idk about anyone else but I'll take all the advice I can get! I love the contracts written up in here and trial and errors you go through with each child. Also it's a nice insight into the child's point of view. I had a younger cousin giving her address and phone # to random people online willy nilly. She lied to her mom and would do whatever she wanted with no rules. We have to keep an eye on our precious kids!