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Frat Girl

Frat Girl

byKiley Roache
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Cole Simmons
5.0 out of 5 starsFair, true, and eye-opening
Reviewed in the United States on April 23, 2018
"I believed that stories helped us to ennoble ourselves, to fix what was broken in us, and to help us become the people we dreamed of being. Lies that told a deeper truth." - Dr. Ford, Westworld

As a friend of Kiley's, it was profoundly unique experience reading about traditions/events that actually happened and fictionalized versions of people we know, but that she drew from real life is what makes it authentic. The views and actions of the characters are those of many college students around the nation. And while it is especially easy to stereotype college students and reduce them to their most obvious and outward traits, Kiley sees beyond the surface to imbue them with depth and growth.

It is the depth and growth that makes this a story worth reading. Feminism and Greek life are two issues that polarize, driving each side to make black and white of issues that are deeply nuanced. Each is rife with double standards. Each can dig themselves into deeper holes by defending those double standards.

Cassie, our protagonist, is not a sage, enlightening all those who cross her path. She is as flawed as those around her. Her anti-sorority views come crumbling down when she is berated (rightfully) for being hypocritical, for not realizing that it is anti-feminist to hold the idea that being able to choose your own path doesn't mean that you can't choose the "girly" path. Choosing not to be a housewife doesn't mean you have to view yourself as wholly superior to those who do choose that lifestyle, but either way it should be your choice.

Having been in a fraternity myself, Kiley's depiction is absolutely fair. Not all of the rampant misogyny comes from a place of malintent. Some does, but often it's simply ignorance. That doesn't make it excusable, but it also doesn't mean that members are lost causes.

Frat Girl is important and comes at a crucial time. It not only bridges the gap in these divisive issues, but provides fresh viewpoints on the path forward. It should be read by every college administration; banning fraternities doesn't change the members' behavior or views, but roots their hatred deeper and disperses them into other communities.
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Allison Kuta
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3.0 out of 5 starsAbrupt ending...
Reviewed in the United States on June 19, 2018
I finished reading Frat Girl about a week ago, and am still kind of lingering over the disappointing, abrupt ending. The book read like a teen movie, with realistic dialogue and plenty of current pop-culture references, but seemed to hit a wall rather than a climax. The best arc was the slow-burn romance between Cassie and her pledge-brother, Jordan. I found almost all the bits with the Stevenson people kind of a drag. I really wanted to like Cassie, but I think we got off to the wrong foot with her extreme, narrow view of feminism in the first few chapters, and her blind distaste for Greek life (sorority girl, here!) She basically is willing to sell-out a group of people for her own gain via joining the fraternity to get her expensive Stanford-esque school paid for on an elite scholarship. I just couldn't relate to her, and though she was well-written, I didn't find her very likable until nearly the end of the book. She was so concerned with how Delta Tau Chi treated minorities, she skimmed over and accepted how their own pledges were hazed? Her core group of fraternity brothers, however, were the only reason I kept reading! I could see distinct similarities between friends of mine, and I appreciated their well-developed, unique personalities. My favorites were Peter, the stoic Delta Tau Chi President, and genuine, likable Jordan. The best character growth was in her fellow pledge, jock Duncan. The friendship with rock-climber Jackie was a refreshing contrast to Cassie's hipster friend Alex, who was increasingly frustrating and, honestly, pretty annoying. My favorite part of the book was when Cassie's former roommate, Leighton, and her Kappa Alpha Delta sorority sisters teach/roast Cassie as to what sororities are really about (promoting female friendship and creating career networks for post-graduation,) offer insight to a broader view of feminism, and remind her what oppression really is. I'm not sure what I was expecting from this novel, but it didn't really deliver. I enjoyed the realistic first-person banter Cassie offered, and the occasionally text and email breaks, but the book kind of dragged for me. Maybe it would have been more enjoyable if it had changed to another character's perspective. I really liked Peter's opinion piece.
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Paige
1.0 out of 5 stars Made me so mad I misspelled "solidified"
Reviewed in the United States on October 9, 2018
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**Content warning for sexual assault and sexism. The book’s antagonist also uses a homophobic slur.**

One of my favorite things about the college I got my B.A. from is that it has no Greek row or Greek housing. Another favorite thing: no community/hall bathrooms, every dorm suite has its own. Hurrah for colleges so modern that they’re literally a single year older than I am! It’s a small college with just under 15,000 enrolled students and very little crime, but of course things happened–like a frat brother being expelled from both his frat and the university when he raped two women and tried to rape a third.

What Frat Girl wants to do is bring some nuance to that idea of frats as groups rife with sexism, heavy drinking, sexual violence, and hazing. What it does instead is come off as unabashedly pro-frat, anti-sorority, ignorant, and protective of both abusive parents and out-of-control frat boys.

Cassandra Davis has the money to attend her dream college solely thanks to the tech billionaire-funded scholarship known as the Stevenson Award. In order to nail that scholarship, she proposed a two-pronged project: pledging a fraternity that’s on probation due to sexism in order to report “undercover” about how bad things are in a modern frat house and conducting a single-blind survey-type study of other students related to their experiences with fraternities and sexual assault. As an ardent feminist, Cass isn’t expecting to be surprised. And yeeeeeeet…

But right off the bat, I’ll let you know Cass is a white feminist and it’s not because she’s white. It’s because she’s exactly the narrow-minded, exclusionary feminist who makes the entire movement hostile to women of color (and to Black women in particular). When she’s not appropriating AAVE slang (which is never addressed), she’s sneering at sorority girls for being shallow dolls.

To be fair, Cass does get her rear handed to her over her internalized sexism, but things get cancelled out when Cass fails to learn anything from being schooled by the same women she’s mistreating. It takes Cass half the book to so much as consider that sorority girls are more layered than she thought, but she continues stereotyping them. About a hundred pages later, a Black sorority girl outright calls her a white feminist and reads Cass the well-deserved riot act!

And yet we don’t get to see any change in Cass’s behavior because that’s the last time she really interacts with any sorority girls. Why can’t Cass get as close with the members of Delta Tau Chi’s sorority matchup as she does with her frat brothers, learning about the two groups’ dependence on one another and the problems of the sorority system along the way? Cass’s own preconceived notions and her lacking friendships with other women leave Frat Girl feeling deeply lopsided.

Cass is downright unbelievable and inconsistent in her characterization. The one time sexual assault comes up in the novel, a participant in Cass’s study details how she was sexually assaulted at a frat party. Though it compromises the study and nearly screws everything over for her, Cass reveals herself to comfort the woman. Even after that one-scene character’s painful story, Cass never considers keeping an eye on the drinks or looking out for other girls during Delta Tau Chi’s parties. You wanna tell me someone like Cass wouldn’t think of that from the very beginning? Sure, whatever. I’ll call you what you are: a liar.

Her romance was fellow pledge and resident Ken doll Jordan Louis is cute for a while, but then he revealed he “can get down to some Ayn Rand” as a fan of challenging books and it all went wrong. Suddenly, he acquired Paul Ryan’s face and it refused to go away. Say no to fans of Ayn Rand books, y’all! It’s a red flag on someone’s character if they read her books and don’t object to the crock of crap she called “objectivism.”

And don’t get me started on the hot mess that is Cass’s undercover study! Where in the world was the IRB? At best, that study unintentionally highlights the need for scientists to be just as educated in the humanities as they are in the science of their choice so they better consider the feelings of their human subjects.

Cass also comes out alarmingly soft on the boys of Delta Tau Chi. She basks in their hypermasculinity when it suits her and after some initial objections to the rampant abuse of alcohol, she soon joins her brothers in laughing it off and getting drunk herself. A guy gets blackout drunk so often that half of a couch is soaked in pee? Ha, funny! But we do need to talk about the relationship between Greek life and alcohol abuse. Let’s start like this:

For God’s sake, more hazing incidents than not involve alcohol and it’s repeatedly gotten downright fatal! Florida State University flat-out suspended all Greek organizations after two frat brothers got arrested on drug charges and a third died with a blood alcohol level of .447! You get a DUI if driving at .08 and .30 is where it starts getting fatal. If you get to a .40+ BAC level and manage to not die of alcohol poisoning, you become a factoid someone can find when Googling “highest BAC level survived.”

Just to top things off, Cass’s dad expresses his dislike of her frat membership by saying she’s “living with a bunch of boys like a cheap hooker” after refusing to speak to her for days. When Cass is understandably infuriated at her verbally abusive father, he demands she get out of his house and she declares it’s the last time she’ll be home for break. Cass’s best friend Alex, who had been the Voice of Reason thus far as one of the only people aware of Cass’s project, tells Cass she–not the straightforwardly bigoted father–was wrong and shouldn’t say she’ll never be back because faaaaaaaaamily. She frames it as Cass thinking she’s too good for her own parents and humble beginnings when it’s very clearly about Cass not wanting someone who treats her like garbage in her life.

NO. ABSOLUTELY NOT. I do not accept apologia for abusive family members here. You are not required to keep a bad human being in your life just because that person is your parent or sibling. Just cut them out if that’s what you need to do for your own well-being. At the time I’m writing this, I’ve gone a month and a half without speaking to my brother and plan to continue that for the foreseeable future, including when I eventually move out. We live in the same house.

Don’t read Frat Girl. Especially don’t read Frat Girl if the Kavanaugh things have left you heinously furious. I am three kinds of exhausted after having to re-experience the book via my notes to get this review written. You can do so much better for yourself and read other college-set YA books like Gloria Chao’s American Panda instead.
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