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The Ones We Choose

The Ones We Choose

byJulie Clark
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Jim F
5.0 out of 5 starsThe Ones We Choose is a wonderfully crafted blend of science and soul … the perfect ...
Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2018
The Ones We Choose is a wonderfully crafted blend of science and soul … the perfect addition to your summer reading list.

The great love of Paige Robson’s life is her son, Miles, whom she conceived using an anonymous sperm donor. An earnest, intense geneticist, Paige has difficulty with the intimacy of adult relationships: forsaken at a young age by her unreliable father, she battles against anyone getting too close to her—even her good-natured lover Liam—because she’s afraid of getting hurt. She also worries about interference with her relationship with her son. Even so, Paige’s life is fulfilling: she enjoys her home life and her (deliberately ironic) career researching the biological underpinnings of paternal attachment.

When other children in Miles’s school begin teasing him for not having a father, he struggles with his lack of knowledge, lashing out against Paige for the manner of his conception. As she seeks to expand her knowledge of the donor—Miles’s biological father—Paige uncovers an astonishing coincidence: not only is it possible she knows the donor, but he may be harboring a terrible secret.

I got a kick out of the premise of this novel, which was beautifully enhanced by explanations of underlying genetic principles at the beginning of each chapter. If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t get want to get bogged down in technical language you won’t miss a crucial plot point by skipping these portions, but if you love the opportunity to soak up some education from your pleasure reading, these sections are for you. They’re engaging, easily understood, and highly enjoyable to read.

Now on to the emotional components of the story: before writing this, I took the time to read some of the other reviews posted of this novel and noticed how many people personally identified with Paige. She is fascinating: she’s such a well-drawn, complete personality, and her story is so compelling. I don’t want to say too much here about the assumptions and choices Paige makes because there are some surprising twists in the novel that kept me stuck to the page. As in all great character-driven fiction, I found myself completely immersed in the mind of the protagonist. Paige’s love for her son is the glue that holds the story together; with every page, you sense the longing she has for her little boy to be okay. I could relate to that so much. Clark’s prose is elegant and enticing; she weaves the story together in a way that feels effortless, but as a writer I know how difficult it is to captivate readers in this way. It’s suspenseful too: trust me, you will be desperate to reach the end of the book to find out what happens.
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esdras
2.0 out of 5 starsImplausible
Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2019
The book was entertaining enough to keep me reading, but I felt it had been a waste of time. The technical info about oxytocin was very interesting & led me to look up more about it, but the plot made little sense. I can’t see why anyone would be severely upset to discover that her husband had been a sperm donor before they met, and that the intended result had occurred, nor why anyone would anticipate such a reaction. To some extent the distress is caused by the nondisclosure, but it’s that anticipation that causes the nondisclosure. In addition, the novel is set in the present, when the CRISPR techniques are being perfected; it therefore makes no sense to wish to remain in ignorance about whether you or your child has a deadly gene.
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Jim F
5.0 out of 5 stars The Ones We Choose is a wonderfully crafted blend of science and soul … the perfect ...
Reviewed in the United States on May 10, 2018
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The Ones We Choose is a wonderfully crafted blend of science and soul … the perfect addition to your summer reading list.

The great love of Paige Robson’s life is her son, Miles, whom she conceived using an anonymous sperm donor. An earnest, intense geneticist, Paige has difficulty with the intimacy of adult relationships: forsaken at a young age by her unreliable father, she battles against anyone getting too close to her—even her good-natured lover Liam—because she’s afraid of getting hurt. She also worries about interference with her relationship with her son. Even so, Paige’s life is fulfilling: she enjoys her home life and her (deliberately ironic) career researching the biological underpinnings of paternal attachment.

When other children in Miles’s school begin teasing him for not having a father, he struggles with his lack of knowledge, lashing out against Paige for the manner of his conception. As she seeks to expand her knowledge of the donor—Miles’s biological father—Paige uncovers an astonishing coincidence: not only is it possible she knows the donor, but he may be harboring a terrible secret.

I got a kick out of the premise of this novel, which was beautifully enhanced by explanations of underlying genetic principles at the beginning of each chapter. If you’re the kind of person who doesn’t get want to get bogged down in technical language you won’t miss a crucial plot point by skipping these portions, but if you love the opportunity to soak up some education from your pleasure reading, these sections are for you. They’re engaging, easily understood, and highly enjoyable to read.

Now on to the emotional components of the story: before writing this, I took the time to read some of the other reviews posted of this novel and noticed how many people personally identified with Paige. She is fascinating: she’s such a well-drawn, complete personality, and her story is so compelling. I don’t want to say too much here about the assumptions and choices Paige makes because there are some surprising twists in the novel that kept me stuck to the page. As in all great character-driven fiction, I found myself completely immersed in the mind of the protagonist. Paige’s love for her son is the glue that holds the story together; with every page, you sense the longing she has for her little boy to be okay. I could relate to that so much. Clark’s prose is elegant and enticing; she weaves the story together in a way that feels effortless, but as a writer I know how difficult it is to captivate readers in this way. It’s suspenseful too: trust me, you will be desperate to reach the end of the book to find out what happens.
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esdras
2.0 out of 5 stars Implausible
Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2019
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The book was entertaining enough to keep me reading, but I felt it had been a waste of time. The technical info about oxytocin was very interesting & led me to look up more about it, but the plot made little sense. I can’t see why anyone would be severely upset to discover that her husband had been a sperm donor before they met, and that the intended result had occurred, nor why anyone would anticipate such a reaction. To some extent the distress is caused by the nondisclosure, but it’s that anticipation that causes the nondisclosure. In addition, the novel is set in the present, when the CRISPR techniques are being perfected; it therefore makes no sense to wish to remain in ignorance about whether you or your child has a deadly gene.
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4.0 out of 5 stars Don't miss The Last Flight also !
Reviewed in the United States on September 9, 2020
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AUGUST 2020 (2018 Published) : 4 STARS. The powerful forces of science and family collide when geneticist Paige Robson finds her world in upheaval. Her 8 year old son Miles is struggling to fit-in at his new school and begins asking questions about his biological father that Paige can't answer. Fate thrusts the anonymous donor she used into their lives.

First book by this author for me was The Last Flight (2020) which I gave 4 stars and then bought this book immediately and jumped-in. I hear this book has been picked-up for a movie. I really liked the scientific genetic info at the end of each chapter that's presented in a simplified way; easy to understand. I enjoyed the emotional journey with Paige & Miles. The info about DNA and inheritance continuing to form our future was very enlightening. My father's been gone for 34 years yet I think I understand him better now after reading this book thanks to you, Julie Clark. Thank you ! Funny side note, my father's last name was Clark! Coincidence ? maybe not. Can't wait to see the movie.
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Alexandra P.
5.0 out of 5 stars Heartfelt story of family and motherhood with a dash of science
Reviewed in the United States on May 26, 2018
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This was such a wonderful, heartfelt read! I loved the science and genetics subplot. It was fascinating! But more than that, I really connected with Paige. She was a sympathetic, developed character that I couldn't help but root for. Her love for her son, her fears, the walls she put up to protect herself--they made her a compelling character for me. The story, too, was equally compelling. Julie Clark weaves a heart-felt story of family, motherhood, and breaking past childhood trauma with precision. The story never lags. The in-between chapters of science, which complement the story, were intriguing. It's one of those stories that I'll read over and over again.
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Suzanne A
5.0 out of 5 stars Julie Clark's debut is storytelling at its finest. Paige Robson is every mother who is fiercely ...
Reviewed in the United States on June 9, 2018
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Julie Clark's debut is storytelling at its finest. Paige Robson is every mother who is fiercely protective of her child and yet can't stop the wheels of her child's curiosity or temper his intense desire to know his father. She knows his heart will be broken as hers is with regard to her own father. As a geneticist, she tries to answer the complicated question of why some fathers never bond with their children, hoping to discover a solution that is one simple medication away from eliminating the heartbreak of abandonment and paternal detachment. There is so much to admire here in Clark's interweaving of Paige's history and scientific research with the present pain of her son, Miles. I'm a fan of learning something when I read, whether of the heart or the mind, and loved the information on genetics that preceded each chapter. The secondary characters are fully developed and a sign of the author's talent that I felt sympathy for each of them even when their goals were at odds with one another. A beautiful read that I thoroughly enjoyed.
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Rory
3.0 out of 5 stars Primetime drama in novel form
Reviewed in the United States on August 16, 2020
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I found the topic of this book interesting and even tried a sample to be sure before purchasing. I did finish it, but I must admit I could not wait to be done and move on. The plot had an interesting start but it was very melodramatic with many of the characters being complete stereotypes. I did not find the main character very likable as the typical highly educated working single parent to an, of course, brilliant and misunderstood 8-real-old son. She was contrasted with several stereotypical stay at home moms who are trophy wives in yoga pants and can not possibly understand why a woman would work. The characters were all very openly judgmental of one another which seemed quite unrealistic. The story itself also became very far fetched and unbelievable. This book was likened to stories by Lisa Genova which made it appealing to me, however there is absolutely no comparison. If you enjoy books where you must suspend belief of reality while being fed scientific facts you may enjoy this, otherwise I would skip it.
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Bootsy
5.0 out of 5 stars Fatherless
Reviewed in the United States on May 7, 2021
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I too consider myself fatherless. I couldnt help but think of how not experiencing what a loving relationship looks like, between a woman and a man, has been a sorrow for me. First because the lack of not seeing or knowing has terribly clouded why my relationships with men have been so messed up. I never knew how a caring relationship between a mother and father gradually grows into something beyond just a relationship. I lost someone I loved more than life but I left not understanding how my decision would haunt me everyday of my life . I wish I had known then what I know now. It is a heartache I carry. I don't know how to forgive myself for leaving the way I did...but I didn't know any better. This story brought up feelings I had tucked away and will have tucked away for the rest of my life. No one ever really can feel the weight of your own sorrow at never having had a role model.
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B. Belding
5.0 out of 5 stars An awesome read!
Reviewed in the United States on May 20, 2018
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A definite MUST READ!!
I never post recommendations (everyone has their own tastes, and usually I don't try to push my tastes on others), but I can't pass this up. It has been a long time since I picked up a book and did not want to put it back down, again, until I finished. I highly recommend The Ones We Choose, by Julie Abbott Clark. Similar to Henrietta Lacks in that science is interwoven into the story, but in a very understandable (but not condescending) way for a lay person...beautifully written with real and relatable characters...intriguing and interesting, without absurd or outlandish storylines. From the jacket description (with which I completely agree!): "With grace and humor, Julie Clark shows that while the science is fascinating, solving intimate mysteries of who we are and where we come from unleashes emotions more complex than the strands of DNA that shape us."
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4.0 out of 5 stars The Ones We Choose
Reviewed in the United States on March 22, 2022
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At first I was annoyed by the genetics lessons interludes. They began to get more personal along the line and we can see how they are facilitating the story line. I got angry at Paige for being so stubborn about change when it was "so obvious" that she WA making some bad decisions by clinging to the hurt I. Her past. But by the end I was wondering what behaviors of mine are driven by difficult or traumatic events. The story line is a bit too tidy, but the author made her points and it got to me.
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Elizabeth M.
5.0 out of 5 stars Fast paced, entertaining read
Reviewed in the United States on February 5, 2022
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It’s hard to believe that this was the author’s first novel. It’s very well structured and paced, and I really enjoyed reading it. The characters are well developed, although I would have liked for Aaron to appear in more of the story’s events. I found everyone’s behaviors and choices to be realistic, which added a lot of sense and sensibility to the story. I encourage you to read this if you enjoy books that explore human relationships and the choices we might make in order to maintain and hold close those people.
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