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12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

12 Rules for Life: An Antidote to Chaos

byJordan B. Peterson
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Jason Lee
5.0 out of 5 starsThe most influential book I have read this year! From a liberal.
Reviewed in the United States on November 11, 2018
I will admit this right off the bat. I knew nothing of Jordan Peterson, or any of his ideology before reading this book. I must have existed in a vacuum, as I merely picked this book up as it was given as an "Amazon Recommends."

Curious about the title, I purchased on impulse.

I am very glad I did.

I am not Jordan Peterson's "supposed" target audience. (I used supposed because I don't think he actually claims to have one).

I am a liberal, Asian, left leaning moderate with a background in philosophy, theology and film studies. I support the women's right movement, equal pay, and I find the Republican party of today rather distasteful for the anti-science movement they espouse.

That being said, this book spoke to me. It is not an easy read. I had to re-read chapters slowly to fully condense my thoughts. I agree with the critical review that stated you have to be intellectually equipped to really get the most out of this. I had to utilize my background in philosophy and religion to go beyond the surface of what the author was trying to say. This is not a book you can listen to at 2x speed on Audible and hope to retain anything, imo. You need to digest this.

That being said...

Peterson's deft weaving of theology, mythology, and just overall cogent arguments and viewpoints made me really respect and open up my mind to things I never fully thought about. I find it laughable that a Harvard professor/psychologist has been embraced by the "alt-right" when even a moderately close reading of this text repudiates all that they stand for.

Peterson is direct. He has opinions. I don't always agree with them. But he is genuinely expressing himself, and the belief that we should all try to be better. We should all try to be more compassionate, and most of all, we all should try to understand our humanity a little more each and every there.

There's no division in this book; there's just deep anguish at the current state of humanity and its capacity for evil. There's some exasperation at the way things are currently constructed in society that is in many ways lost. And most of all, there's compassion and a belief that if we all got together in a room and truly talked, the world would be a better place.

I would shy away from the noise around Peterson in the headlines, on Youtube, and in how the idealogues use him (or even his own personal media narrative) to justify their twisted beliefs. Don't let the fact that the "Alt-Right" has co-opted this man to make him a mascot.

Just read the book independently and make your own judgments. You'll be glad you did.
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wimcoekaerts
1.0 out of 5 starsDisappointed
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2018
I found his position on women to be very disappointing. Btw I’m a guy. It was very bad. I don’t want to support an author like that. I wish I could get my money back honestly and that’s a first.
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1.0 out of 5 stars Disappointed
Reviewed in the United States on November 5, 2018
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I found his position on women to be very disappointing. Btw I’m a guy. It was very bad. I don’t want to support an author like that. I wish I could get my money back honestly and that’s a first.
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The River Saints
1.0 out of 5 stars Ugh.
Reviewed in the United States on August 29, 2018
I tried.
This book had so many excellent reviews.
I just don’t understand.
I was following nicely about lobsters and posture. It made sense.
I ignored the tone, which was borderline yelling.
I ignored the sweeping generalizations.
I ignored the biblical passages that started to overtake every paragraph in a quasi word-salad way. I’ve studied the Bible since I could read. I know when something is off.
I can only compare this book to a very long sermon, where I’m trying to follow along, and derive some wisdom. As the hours wear on, everyone is shaking their heads in agreement and I just want to go home.
All I could hear were illogical statements that left zero room for elasticity and nuance. I am a human being. We all are. The author seems to set that aside and preach on...and on...and on.
I felt alienated, confused and finally could take no more. I got up and left the church that this book pretends not to be.
I could not have disliked this self-help book more.
Never again.
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Calvin Lang
1.0 out of 5 stars 85% needs to be cut out
Reviewed in the United States on October 25, 2018
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I don't usually write reviews, but the thing is I like Jordan Peterson but this book is so far from the standard he sets in his dialogue that I have to express disappointment. I felt like most paragraphs were rambles that made me think "What the hell does this have to do with the actual rule?" So much of this book felt painful to read because of how dull and pointless it was.

Please don't read this book. It will ruin your perception of Dr. Peterson.
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vas
1.0 out of 5 stars Extremely disappointed (perspective of a secular reader)
Reviewed in the United States on December 16, 2018
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I've listened to Jordan Peterson speak on a few occasions and he sounded like somebody I could learn a few things from. This book starts rather well - the chapter on lobsters and serotonin biochemistry is pretty spot on from what I know about evolutionary biology. However, the book continues with the next several chapters heavily relying on biblical stories. It's not my thing at all being an atheist. JP is a guy who thinks and has publicly stated on multiple occasions that morality can only be constructed upon biblical stories (as opposed to, say, science), which I strongly disagree with. Nonetheless I was hoping this book would give me some interesting new ideas, and it failed to deliver.

Secondly, he is not a very gifted writer in my subjective opinion. You may disagree ,but I found his writing incredibly dry and actually boring.
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1.0 out of 5 stars show off
Reviewed in the United States on October 27, 2018
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maybe i am just stupid. but this guy rambles on and uses unnecessarily long drawn out words for no reason. boring and waste of time.
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Matt Beatty
1.0 out of 5 stars Should've been titled "This is Not Good: Unqualified Nonsense and Other Riffs on Life"
Reviewed in the United States on July 8, 2019
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Sorry, Mr. Peterson, but I am not one of your many admirers.

There are some moments of reflection, strong anecdotes, decent ideas, and even deep emotion in this massive tome of a book, but most of it is strongly opinionated and weakly supported.

Mr. Peterson is traditional, openly averse to anything that shies from standard cultural convention, and blatant with his views on gender and progressive thought (he's not a fan). His preferred reality dwells in the 1950s, when families were nuclear, men worked and the women stayed home and reared children (his opinion of his own parenting skills could *not* be higher). He likes men to be manly and "winners." He likes women to be deeply in need a man, but not vice versa. Because of the value he gives to dominance hierarchies, everything is a competition, therefore there *must* be winners and losers.

Time and time again he strongly recommends doing what has been done before. He seems to think that over time and through our forebears, the current state of western society is ideal and should not be changed. Revolutions? Dangerous. Counterculture? Avoid at all costs. Thinking outside the box? But the box is here for a reason! Envisioning a culture that downplays dominance and favors equality? It can't exist--don't waste your time!

He's intelligent and obviously a thinker, but also obviously thinks so highly of himself that he isn't ashamed to preach his credentials and make blanket statements about, well, everything.

I related most strongly with him when he told personal stories. Growing up in Canada, dealing with his daughter's debilitating illness. But those stories were few and far between. Instead we get 40-page missives, like rule 9, of empty biblical analysis, and by the time we get to the summary at the end of rule we are left thinking, what was this rule about again?

He thanks his editor in his introduction (aka "overture"--a flowerly JBPism if there ever was one). I, however, believe he needs a new editor. One who's not afraid to tell him, My dear Jordan, this heavyhanded silliness must have its fat trimmed. The book could have been 120 pages--10 pages per rule. Make it clearly anecdotal. Cut the savior complex. Trim the biblical analysis. Get to the point. Don't make us squint, harder and harder, to try and find the bizarre relationships you're making.

Or, we could just pass on this book. For the collective good of the current state of society.
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Nicola Rottermann
1.0 out of 5 stars Horrible preacher of a fanatic Christian
Reviewed in the United States on December 17, 2018
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I expected something different. While there are some interesting points that really are related to modern life and psychology most of the time I felt like the author is so fixed on the bible. Some passages are just too crazy and I wonder how a scientist can have such primitive beliefs and mix them up with facts trying to make a point.
In the end, you could probably cut out some religious nonsense and a lot of blablabla and you would have a pretty nice book about the12 rules.
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Meredith
1.0 out of 5 stars Rambling and self-indulgent
Reviewed in the United States on November 10, 2018
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I don't know how this book got so many good reviews. Even the foreword is a rambling self-indulgent bore.
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Mark Vanderpool
1.0 out of 5 stars 400 Pages That Should Have Been 12 Paragraphs
Reviewed in the United States on September 15, 2018
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I was excited about this book. The forward by Norman Doidge made me even more excited about this book. And then I started reading it. Or trying to. This is some of the most repetitive, rambling text I've ever tried to slog through. I strongly suggest previewing this book at a library or book store. If you have the same reaction I've had, you'll put it right back down, saving yourself time and money.

Jordan, may I suggest a variation on your Rule 10? Be CONcise in your speech. Or at least provide a summary paragraph. Make your point. Don't make readers dig to find it.
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Ben
1.0 out of 5 stars Willfully misleading
Reviewed in the United States on September 24, 2018
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Peterson appears to be a Jungian psychiatrist, an adherent to the idea that the reason myths and legends from around the world is so alike is that they express underlying psychological processes that are equal to all humans. While a quaint idea, Peterson takes this a step further, claiming that this is the result of evolution. When Eve eats a fruit in the Garden of Eden, for instance, this is because human beings evolved vision to single out ripe fruit (page 47), and the Biblical Wisdom is a metaphor for vision, seemingly passed down through hereditary memory.

To be very clear: This is not how evolution works. At all. And I am not quoting that example to ridicule him, it's actually his most sensible idea. The majority of that chapter is dedicated to explaining how women embody chaos and men embody order, something which is apparently the result of evolution and expressed in the Bible. Simply put, evolution proves that the Bible (and every other Holy Book) is actually talking about Petersons ideas.

It would take an entire essay to list everything Peterson has gotten wrong in this book, but a short selection follows: He believes human evolution is done within the framework of lobsters (page 33), he believes Christianity led to science through alchemy (ignoring that many other cultures developed alchemy), he believes that science has disproven Feminism, that Tolstoy and Goethe expressed the same ideas as the Columbine shooter, and of course, insists that every thinker he dislikes is an open or secret Marxist (page 300 and onwards). Rather than explain that viewpoint, he goes on a rant about the evils of communism- a Red version of Godwin's Law, if you will.

A lot of it seems to be taken from visions he’s had in dreams, or through automatic writing (his Pen of Light, (Coda)).There is at least one point where he pretty much openly claims that he, personally, prevented mass murder through telepathy (page 288). People who agree with him is referred to as «awake», and rather than proof he occasionally just refers to the fact that people will know in their hearts that it is true (most openly stated on page 40). Everyone who disagrees with him is a left-wing extremist, comparable to the Chinese Communists during the Great Leap Forward.

No one can so consistently misunderstand so many concepts and weave them into a coherent, misleading text. He is either actively lying in order to woo Wiki-walking internet intellectuals, or he’s trying to start a new religion. Or both. Take your pick. Read the book if you must, but please remember: none of the things to which he refers is actually the way he presents them.
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